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While society has marketed love as a universal cure-all, it can be a double-edged sword, especially for men. This discussion peels back the layers of the “love myth,” examining how love is not the same for everyone—and how understanding that difference is critical to navigating relationships without losing yourself.

For men, love is often an altruistic endeavor, a genuine commitment born from sincerity. But for women, love can be driven by practical needs, something approached with a sense of opportunity. This isn’t a condemnation; it’s an acknowledgment of survival instincts that both men and women have. Yet, for men, this reality becomes treacherous the moment they cease to be a woman’s best option. Hypergamy—the search for a partner who represents an upgrade—can leave men vulnerable if they aren’t aware of the dynamics at play.

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