S.E.X.
by The Mindful Modern Mistress
Explore a variety of topics about sex, confidence, skills, communication and feelings!
Podcast episodes
How to Blow His Mind" Giving an Unforgettable Blow Job
"How to Blow His Mind: A Guide to Giving an Unforgettable Blow Job" is a guidebook written by The Mindful Modern Mistress that aims to teach readers how to give excellent oral sex to men. The guide stresses the importance of enthusiasm, communication, and practice when it comes to performing oral sex, and it provides detailed instructions on techniques, including how to master one's gag reflex, find the right pressure points, and explore different positions. The guide also addresses the differences between circumcised and uncircumcised men and offers advice on how to explore anal stimulation, rimming, and other sexually adventurous activities.
Extra Tips on Giving Good Head
A podcast about a guide on how to give a good blow job. It emphasizes the importance of enthusiasm and communication in creating a positive experience for both partners. The guide also offers practical advice on technique, including how to practice with various objects and positions. It addresses concerns about gag reflexes and explains how to work towards deepthroating. Finally, it delves into advanced techniques, such as using your fingers or toys, and offers warnings about safety practices during rimming.
The High Value, Sex- Positive Woman
Review of a book titled The High Value, Sex-Positive Woman by The Mindful Modern Mistress, which challenges the societal notion that women who enjoy sex are of lower value. The author argues that women should be allowed to embrace their sexuality without judgment and emphasizes that a woman’s sexual history does not define her worth. She criticizes the double standard that exists in dating culture where men are often praised for their sexual experiences while women are judged for expressing their sexuality. She encourages women to live authentically, embrace their sexuality, and reject the notion that they must be "perfect" to be worthy or valuable.
Casual Sex, Attachment Style and Feelings
This podcast explores the implications of attachment styles on relationships. The author, a relationship coach, argues that a secure attachment style, which roughly 55% of the population possesses, leads to more fulfilling romantic connections. However, the remaining 45% struggle with insecure attachment, often experiencing difficulties with trust, intimacy, and commitment. The author suggests that recognizing one's own attachment style and being mindful of one's partner's attachment style can be crucial for navigating these challenges. The post encourages individuals to embrace feelings in relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and conscious choices in building healthy connections.
"P" in the Pool: Players
The blog post "Lousy Tinder Date Sex and Divorce Negotiations" by The Mindful Modern Mistress examines the manipulative behaviors of "practiced players" in both the dating world and divorce proceedings. This podcast discusses the blog post and it's lessons. The author argues that these individuals, often described as "sharks" and "bottom-feeders," prioritize their own needs and gratification, using emotional manipulation and deceit to achieve their goals. The author emphasizes the importance of recognizing and avoiding these individuals in dating and divorce, advocating for self-awareness and seeking professional guidance like divorce negotiators to protect oneself from emotional and financial exploitation.