Episode notes
You name the price and the room goes quiet. Your brain immediately goes to the worst case. Too high. They're looking for a way to say no. So you start explaining. You soften. You drop the number before anyone asked you to.
Jake and Jon break down why that instinct is costing you deals and how to replace it with one of the most powerful negotiation skills you can build. The ability to hold silence without flinching.
0:00 — Why Most People Panic in Silence (and How It Destroys Their Authority)
2:48 — The 3 Types of Silence: Evaluation, Hesitation, and Commitment
8:10 — The "Dark Alley" Metaphor: Why Tension Feels Dangerous but Isn't
8:08 — Step 1: Pause After Important Statements and Count to Five
10:38 — Step 2: Don't Answer Que ...