Self-Love can open many doors that aren’t for the insecure. Feeling love as a place for others to fall back on, giving some the feeling of being dominant can lead to a closed door, a closed brain non thinking of what is right or wrong. Only basing their self-love on the emotions or emotional need stemming from another. Their referring to the other emotions become the brain (of the one who seeks love , but not self-love ) Self-love is what it is loving self-first as to maintaining the commitment that one should abide by for the reasons called maintaining as well as balancing a healthy mind heart and soul , the spirit then speaks to others in a strong secure stable tone (voice) Not withholding the woman or man by speaking as a child or sending childlike signals, waiting for someone to show their self-love are those who are now ready to close the do ...