Dating And Hookup Sites

by The Mindful Modern Mistress

The author, a member of the BDSM community, compares and contrasts their experiences with dating and lifestyle sites like Tinder, Bumble, AdultFriendFinder (AFF), and Fetlife. They give Fetlife a positive review for its respectful community and specific profiles, while criticizing Tinder and Bumble for their prevalence of "fuckboys" and emotionally immature users. The author expresses disappointment with the current state of ... 

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Podcast episodes

  • Dating App Disappointments: Lack of Effort

    Dating App Disappointments: Lack of Effort

    This podcast summarizes a blog post by a dating and relationship coach, known as "The Mindful Modern Mistress," criticizes the lazy and disrespectful behavior of some dating app users who create blank profiles and send generic messages, failing to provide any information about themselves or their intentions. The author argues that such behavior is unacceptable, especially on platforms where users have the opportunity to be open about their preferences and boundaries. She advises ignoring or blocking users who display this kind of behavior, asserting that their lack of effort and respect demonstrates a lack of compatibility and is a waste of time and energy.

  • "B" is for Block

    "B" is for Block

    This podcast is about a blog post by a dating coach who uses a humorous spin on the concept of “4Bs” to explain how to block unsuitable matches on dating apps. It argues that instead of wasting time on profiles with limited information, inappropriate messages, or requests for money, women should use their power to block these individuals and avoid unnecessary interaction. The author encourages women to set boundaries and prioritize their safety by blocking those who disrespect them or fail to engage in respectful communication.

  • Challenges Faced By Women in Dating

    Explicit

    Challenges Faced By Women in Dating

    Explicit

    This podscat is a discussion of a blog post, titled "Sassy and a Little Badassy," by The Mindful Modern Mistress, who discusses women's sexuality in today's dating world. The author emphasizes the importance of embracing women's desires and exploring intimacy on their own terms. She also tackles the societal pressures surrounding body image and self-acceptance, encouraging women to love their bodies regardless of societal standards. The post explores the complexities of relationships, highlighting the importance of finding a love that is fulfilling and empowering. Ultimately, the author encourages women to embrace their sexuality, celebrate their uniqueness, and find joy in their personal journeys.

  • Strong Women and Dating

    Strong Women and Dating

    This podcast focuses on a blog post, written by the Mindful Modern Mistress, about the challenges and complexities of dating in the modern world, particularly for strong, independent women. The author addresses stereotypes of different types of women, like cougars and career-driven women, and encourages self-acceptance and authenticity in dating. She emphasizes the importance of self-love and humor in navigating the sometimes-difficult terrain of modern relationships. The author ultimately argues that despite the challenges, love is worth pursuing and embracing.

  • Challenges for Men in Dating

    Challenges for Men in Dating

    This podcast about a blog written by a dating and relationship coach provides advice for men navigating the modern dating scene. It focuses on three specific types of women: cougars, who are independent and confident in their sexuality; traditionalists, who value chivalry and romance; and princesses, who expect to be treated like royalty. The author emphasizes the importance of communication, setting boundaries, and being honest about one's expectations in all relationships. The post also encourages men to be courageous, confident, and humorous when approaching dating, reminding them to pursue genuine and fulfilling connections.