44: SHIFT Rx | I Didn't Know How to Forgive Myself Until I Learned This

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You don’t have to suffer to prove you’ve changed.

This week’s SHIFT Rx tackles the emotional toll of self-punishment—and why withholding forgiveness doesn’t make you strong, it just keeps you stuck. We’re flipping the script on what it really means to move forward after a mistake, especially if you’ve been conditioned to believe that grace has to be earned through shame, regret, and emotional isolation.

Inside this short but seismic episode, we break down:

• Why you delay forgiving yourself (and how that’s not your fault)
• How nervous system regulation rewires shame-based behavior
• The physiological power of self-compassion (hello, heart rate variability)
• Practical ways to extend grace without losing accountability
• A fire SHIFT Framework to move from penance to ...