This is not a test!

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Welcome to well since we’re here and in todays episode we discuss;

 The Ways ,I as a Gay POC may have to navigate the world in,
“This is not a test!”

1. Ways I have to minimize who I am in order to remain respected 

• Pretending to  be straight or overly masculine 
• Overly feminine or a like a caricature of oneself (think Wanda, sheneneh, madea, quite the opposite of Vera because other variety or skits shows like Seinfeld for example).
• Recall hearing the story about family matters 
• Heyyyyy bitch, Im not your girlfriend !

It's important to be authentic and true to yourself. Pretending to be someone you're not in order to gain respect can be emotionally taxing. It's better to find a balan ...