You’re Not the Villain: The Hidden Reality of Going Low Contact with Your Mother

When you go low contact with an emotionally immature or narcissistic mother, no one tells you what really happens next. In this episode of The Mother Wound Project Podcast, Tandi breaks down the real-life reality of what it looks like to set boundaries with a toxic mom—and how it can trigger guilt, escalation, and emotional chaos before peace finally comes.

You’ll learn: 🌪️ Why emotionally immature mothers see boundaries as threats, not limits. 📞 What “low contact” actually looks like in practice—less calls, fewer visits, and more peace. ⚡ How behavior escalates when she realizes you’re stepping back—guilt trips, flying monkeys, and victim narratives. 💔 The hidden emotional cost of protecting yourself (grief, doubt, and family backlash). 🧘‍♀️ How to stay grounded through it all with scr ...