Go First!

When it comes to putting yourself first, we’ve got two parts to consider.

Coming first and going first.

Coming first (in your own mind) means choosing yourself.

It comes from a place inside us. We commit to meet our own needs as much as possible.

It is to prioritize yourself-your own goals, preferences, feelings, opportunities, options, and interests.

Coming first ensures you know your own path.

It requires self reflection and inner knowing to do that.

You must believe you know what’s best for yourself and that you’re worth it.

The key is to put whatever is best for you ahead of what others might prefer or choose for you.

It doesn’t mean you disregard others’ needs or wishes, just that you count yourself in and factor in what matters most to you right from the start.

If you have to choos ...