Episode notes
What does it really mean to be called “high maintenance”? In this episode of The Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we unpack the stereotypes, backhanded compliments, and insecurities tied to the label. From beauty routines to dating expectations, we ask: is it about being demanding or simply knowing what you like and being intentional about how you want to be treated?
We get into:
- The difference between standards, boundaries, and entitlement
- Why Black women are often shamed for luxury, care, and softness
- How “too much” for one person is just Tuesday for another
- The importance of reciprocity in dating and friendships
- Why respecting yourself sets the tone for how others treat you
Because being well-cared for by yourself or your partner isn’t “too much.” It’s self-respect. ...
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