Episode notes
Providing guidance on creating healthy limits, a core concept for dealing with unsolicited romantic advances.
1. Defining the Problem (and Your Rights)
- Clarity vs. Politeness: The episode emphasizes that the adult responsibility is clarity, not politeness. You do not owe an explanation or a soft rejection to someone who is making you uncomfortable.
- The "Boundary Bill of Rights": A quick list of things you are allowed to do, such as: walking away, blocking a person immediately, asking a manager/bartender/HR for help, and setting a firm boundary without debate.
2. Practical Lifehacks: The Scripts
- The Public/Workplace Script: "I'm not interested in discussing this with you. Please ...
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