Coach Me Through the Default Parent Divorce (Part 2: From Scorekeeping to Solutions)

Last week, we unpacked why the Default Parent Divorce is making headlines — from mental load imbalance to perfectionism, resentment, and the patterns that keep us choosing similar partners. We explored how communication, curiosity, and courageous conversations can change the dynamic before a relationship breaks down.

This week, we pick up right where we left off — diving into the controversial world of chores apps. Catherine shares why she believes they can actually harm intimacy and foster scorekeeping, while Tanu makes the case for how they can work when used as a practical, data-driven tool for left-brain partners.

We then share  ...