Emotions vs Clarity: How to Stop Reacting and Start Responding

In this episode of The Quest for Self, we dive deep into the difference between emotions and clarity—and why so many of us confuse the two. We explore what it looks like to pause before reacting, to breathe before speaking, and to reclaim our power in moments that feel overwhelming. Through personal stories of emotional regulation, nervous system dysregulation, and real-time triggers, we unpack how our past wounds often hijack our present responses. You’ll hear about a moment with my dog Mia that nearly spiraled—and how I handled it differently than I would have years ago. We also break down how trauma, fight-or-flight, and emotional triggers can lead us to say things we regret. This episode is for anyone who’s ever snapped, overreacted, ...