Fixing People Won’t Save Them — But It Will Break You

In this episode of The Quest for Self, we dive into the emotional exhaustion that comes from constantly trying to fix, carry, or save the people around us. We explore the hidden toll this takes on our peace, our energy, and our ability to show up for ourselves. If you’re an empath, a people-pleaser, or the “strong friend” — this one’s for you. We unpack the childhood patterns that lead us to overextend, the dangers of confusing love with responsibility, and why trying to fix others often keeps us from healing ourselves. Together, we learn to recognize when helping becomes harmful and how to set powerful boundaries without guilt. This is about reclaiming our energy, honoring our emotional limits, and finally putting down what was never ours to carry. We share real-life examples, reflection questions, and steps you can take tod ...