Friend Crush with Amber Akilla

Friend Crush with Amber Akilla

by Amber Akilla

Society & Culture

Season 7

kindness is never weakness

don't let the haters stop you from doing ur thang follow me on IG ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ dead or alive summer 2025 playlist !!! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1lezLPXhmrrrs1wD4GzDnI?si=108bae9312df4374 slay habit trackers ☆ free download https://www.friendcrush.club/shop/p/hot-girl-slay-habits-e-bundle subscribe for full episodes, exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ patreon.com/amberakilla ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

indifference is the best revenge ╮( ˘_˘ )╭

when being the bigger person is overrated if you wish me bad, i wish you _____ !!!! 01:53 - 04:25 - 1. define love, acknowledge your efforts 04:25 - 05:21 - 2. what fantasy or potential did you become attached to 05:22 - 05:52 - 3. withdraw your effort 05:53 - 09:07 - 4. redirect, transmute & alchemize your energy 09:08 - 11:30 - 5. neutrality over positivity (for now) 11:31 - 14:36 - 6. be prepared & train for awkward moments 14:37 - 15:57 - 7. don’t assume you know how someone is coping, focus on yourself 15:58 - 16:35 - 8. everyone’s karma is their personality 16:36 - 17:25 - 9. have a constructive & generative mindset not a destructive one 17:26 - 18:58 - 10. being protective during initial healing 18:59 -20:54 - 11. wish them nothing 20:56 - 22:40 - 12. everything is changing all the time, transformation takes consistent effort over time follow me on IG ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ slay habit trackers ☆ free download https://www.friendcrush.club/shop/p/hot-girl-slay-habits-e-bundle subscribe for full episodes, exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ patreon.com/amberakilla ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

MOVING TO A NEW CITY - should you move, dating, making new friends

slay habit trackers ☆ free download https://www.friendcrush.club/shop/p/hot-girl-slay-habits-e-bundle subscribe for full episodes, exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ patreon.com/amberakilla ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

be crazy in private so you can focus on being hot in public: journalling

watch this if you're looking to start or still skeptical about journalling !!! 4:36 the artist’s way, being consistent 5:45 free printables & habit trackers 5:54 the six pillars of self esteem 6:42 create a judgement free space for your thoughts 7:38 you don’t have to revisit or re-read 8:34 normalize crashing out in private 10:02 allow for new thoughts 11:25 positive scripting 12:05 re-affirm whats important to you 12:50 prepare for things to change 13:47 prepare for new challenges 14:59 being intentional with time & energy 16:22 tools required slay habit trackers ☆ free download https://www.friendcrush.club/shop/p/hot-girl-slay-habits-e-bundle subscribe for full episodes, exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ patreon.com/amberakilla ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

is your bestie acting like a hater? (female bullying & passive aggression)

girl, you might be a VICTIM??!!! referenced video on female bullyinghttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DL5qDFDttps 4:46 indirect, passive agression 5:45 group size 6:20 incompatibility 6:54 social isolation & the grey zone 7:12 jealousy & envy 7:32 aggression inhibitors 8:13 being hot is a threat 11:15 prevention 11:35 avoid emotional reactions 12:03 employ humour/wit 12:35 insecurity/second chances 12:53 get social skills/new friends 14:15 be true to your core values 16:05 learn to be alone 16:57 clock those one sided relationships 18:54 gatekeep vulnerability 20:32 don’t question fate 22:36 allow time to pass & the tea to spill subscribe for full episodes, exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ patreon.com/amberakilla ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ slay habit trackers ☆ free download ⁠https://www.friendcrush.club/shop/p/hot-girl-slay-habits-e-bundle⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

don't let a fear of cringe get in the way of slaying

hope this helps!!! let me know :P chronically online behviour nobody cares that much embrace the discomfort & cringe baby steps & experimental approach create your own metric system people that have reconciled with their cringe, won’t judge you what is your value add be real with yourself radical acceptance embrace evolution subscribe for full episodes, exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ patreon.com/amberakilla ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

how hot girls make friends ☆

some additional thoughts on how to adjust your mindset to make new friends. share your thoughts and experiences with me in the comments!!! referenced videos: 30 & feeling lonely and disconnected:https://youtu.be/d31wkPGXUd0 do what you enjoy: https://youtu.be/M_7URMkKPR8 hot girl habits: https://youtu.be/DszRCbx0_AE subscribe for full episodes, exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ patreon.com/amberakilla ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

real baddie behaviour

what does it really take to be a “baddie”? to me, being a baddie is more than just an aesthetic, its an attitude, and one that you have to define for yourself and EXECUTE!!!!!! baddie defined personalise your approach success is not the absence of failure example process your emotions two approaches sense of humour grey-rock baddie in training be prepared to walk away define your bottom line 10. allow yourself to evolve subscribe for exclusive podcast episodes ♡ free trial available on patreon~ join the group chat! https://patreon.com/amberakilla ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla https://www.xiaohongshu.com/user/profile/amberakilla yesstyle code AMBER39

the philosophy of being hot & having fun (re-introduction for youtube))

don't forget to slay!!! subscribe for exclusive podcast episodes ♡ https://patreon.com/amberakilla ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla https://www.xiaohongshu.com/user/profile/amberakilla yesstyle code AMBER39

before (or after) you send that essay text

let's start speaking to the manager within!!! self-confrontation self-responsibility meeting other people's needs at the expense of your own maybe YOU need to validate you they aint reading all that make note of your blind spots the urge to purge is the means, NOT sending the essay text is the end process your anger true compatibility feels like peace, not war subscribe for exclusive podcast episodes ♡ https://patreon.com/amberakilla ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla https://www.xiaohongshu.com/user/profile/amberakilla

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