In this episode, I sit down with Pastor Deborah Flanagan for a deeply honest and grace-filled conversation about love and sex addiction, compulsive masturbation, and the hope we can find in recovery. We explore the powerful role that childhood wounds, trauma, and shame play in shaping our sexuality—and how compassion, vulnerability, and spiritual tools can guide us toward healing.

Deborah brings both pastoral wisdom and lived experience to this conversation. She’s a leader at Pure Desire Ministries, an organization that walks with individuals and churches through the journey of healing from sexual brokenness. As someone who’s walked the path of recovery herself, Deborah offers insight on how the FASTER Scale helps identify emotional states that precede relapse, and how true healing requires presence, community, and grace.

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