“I’m Proud of You” - Words My Mot...
“I’m Proud of You” - Words My Mother Refused to Say
The Me I’m Becoming by Linh Lee
S1 · E6
Jun 8, 2026
07:52
Episode notes

In this episode, I open up about something I spent my entire childhood longing to hear:

“I’m proud of you.”

I talk about growing up with an abusive mother who refused to give me words of affirmation, how that impacted my self-esteem well into adulthood, and the ways trauma can quietly shape the way we see ourselves long after we leave toxic environments.

This episode is about healing, rewiring negative thought patterns, grieving the love we deserved, and learning to give ourselves the kindness we were never shown.

And if nobody has told you lately: I am proud of you.

Keywords
narcissistic abuse
abusive mother
family estrangement
healing from abuse
trauma recovery
complex PTSD
childhood trauma
healing journey
complex trauma
emotional abuse