Missing the Mother I Never Had
Missing the Mother I Never Had
The Me I’m Becoming by Linh Lee
S1 · E2
May 7, 2026
07:32
Episode notes

This episode is for the survivors who struggle silently around Mother’s Day.

After six months away from the podcast, I wanted to come back with an honest conversation about the complicated grief that can come with being no contact with an abusive mother or family. In this episode, I open up about the emotions this time of year brings up for me personally - the sadness, anger, grief, flashbacks, and the feeling of mourning a relationship that never truly existed in the way it should have.

I also talk about what has helped me navigate these triggers, including journalling, allowing myself to feel emotions instead of suppressing them, and learning that healing isn’t linear.

If Mother’s Day is painful for you, I hope this episode reminds you that your feelings are valid and that you are not alone.

Thank you for being here and  ... 

Keywords
narcissistic abuse
mother wound
mother daughter trauma
abusive mother
family estrangement
no contact
healing from abuse
trauma recovery
complex PTSD
childhood trauma
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