Combo #2: Joy, The Secret Ingredient To Happiness ~ Being Joyful in Today's World and The Psychology of Joy and Happiness, How to Be Happier: Lessons from Alyssa Liu and the Bad Bunny Super Bowl Halftime Show
In the second Combo episode of The Glow Diner, Virginia serves up Joy: The Secret Ingredient to Happiness, and why cultivating joy isn’t naive… it’s neurological. We live in a world where joy can feel inappropriate. Where having fun can feel guilty. Where choosing light feels like ignoring darkness. But as Dan Savage once said about the AIDS crisis: “We buried our friends in the morning, we protested in the afternoon, and we danced all night… and it was the dance that kept us in the fight because it was the dance we were fighting for.” And as Michelle Obama reminds us: “Joy has always been a form of resistance.” We break down the cultural moment around Bad Bunny's SuperBowl Half Time Show, the power of choosing celebration in the face of hate, and how denying yourself joy doesn’t make you morally superior, it just makes you miserable. Today’s combo explores: • Joy vs. happiness (and why they’re not the same) • The ABC Model of Happiness (A: Pleasure, B: Relief, C: Contentment) • Why joy can coexist with pain • How Olympic gold medalist Alysa Liu demonstrates outcome-detached joy • Neuroplasticity and why joy is trainable • The brain’s negativity bias • Rick Hanson’s “Taking in the Good” practice • The Happiness Advantage and why joy precedes success • Barbara Fredrickson’s Broaden-and-Build Theory • Emotional contagion and upward spirals • Anxiety vs. excitement: same physiology, different story 🍒 See you at the counter. SOURCES & STUDIES MENTIONED: “The Science of Well-Being” — Yale University Dr. Laurie Santos’ course (FREE): https://online.yale.edu/courses/science-well-being ABC Model of Happiness “The ABC Model of Happiness—Neurobiological Aspects of Motivation and Positive Mood” https://www.mdpi.com/2079-7737/11/6/843 Alysa Liu Stateside Performance https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SDbfHVt2JRg Neuroplasticity Review (2025) “The Neuroplastic Brain: Current Breakthroughs and Emerging Frontiers” https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/40280532/ Fredrickson, B. L. (2001). The Role of Positive Emotions in Positive Psychology: The Broaden-and-Build Theory of Positive Emotions. American Psychologist. Hanson, R. (Positive Neuroplasticity & Taking in the Good framework) Kiken, L. G., et al. (2017). Positive Emotion Correlates of Meditation Practice. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29201247/ Gratitude & Well-Being Study https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39895025/ The Happiness Advantage — Shawn Achor Additional reads: McKinsey & Company – Five small practices that lead to happiness Canadian HR Reporter – Happier employees = greater success Introduction Music by Petrushkasound from Pixabay. License u_3gapax5f3i