Why do good people sometimes act in harmful, confusing, or even destructive ways? In this thought-provoking episode of Strategies for Living, David McMillian and Lauren Leon McMillian explore the deeper psychology behind human behavior—moving beyond labels of “good” and “bad” to understand what truly drives our actions.

Drawing from trauma, attachment patterns, survival instincts, and the need to belong, they unpack how past experiences, emotional triggers, and nervous system responses can override our values in the moment. From unresolved trauma and societal pressure to self-awareness gaps and the desire for control, this episode reveals why behavior is often a signal—not a definition—of who we are.

You’ll also discover practical strategies for increasing emotional awareness, regulating your nervous system, and creating the  ...