How to resolve an identity confli...

How to resolve an identity conflict: Retired military vet Max cannot put his old ways aside in a new career

Partners in Sublime: Elevating personal growth through psych... by Shagun Chopra
E11
Mar 10, 2026
01:01:22

Episode notes

When we transition into a new identity, do we have to leave the old one behind? And what is the difference between our identity and what we present to the world? Max spent twenty years in the military before stepping into the world of mental health care, and four years later, he is still caught between two versions of himself. In this episode, we explore the psychology of identity conflict through the lens of Jungian analytical psychology, looking at how the ego constructs identity, how the persona and shadow work together to create internal splits, and what it actually takes to move toward a more integrated sense of self. Through a live coaching session with Max, we witness what happens when a neglected part of the psyche finally gets to speak, and what it has to say is both surprising and deeply moving. If you have ever felt pulled between who you were and who you are becoming, this episode is for you.

About the host: Shagun Chopra is an individuation coach, speaker, and educator. Her unique approach combines Jungian depth psychology with ancient Vedic wisdom to create the ultimate personal transformation. She supports professionals, entrepreneurs, and creatives in bringing their wildest dreams to life and leapfrogging their career, business, and relationships. To learn more, visit shagunchopra.com

Join the show: To ask a question or get coached on the show (anonymously or otherwise), visit shagunchopra.com/ask

Keywords

Personal Development
Depth Psychology
Vedic Philosophy
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Partners in Sublime
Shagun Chopra