Messy Thoughts Episode 19. This week on Messy Thoughts, we are ALL over the place… in the best way possible.

BJ kicks things off with a truly cursed Monday: dentist cancellations, a blown-out tire on I-35, Discount Tire chaos, and a reminder that sometimes you just have to laugh before you spiral. From there, we dive into the internet’s latest parasocial obsession — the TikTok breakup of Brin & Mario — and unpack what happens when your entire brand is built on being a couple.

Then it’s Black History Month, and we’re honoring two icons:

📚 E. Lynn Harris – the groundbreaking openly gay Black author who shaped a generation of readers. 🏛️ Shirley Chisholm – the first Black woman elected to Congress and the first Black woman to run for President in 1972.

We also play a ch ...