Messy Thoughts Episode 16. We close out Season 1 with one of the funniest and most chaotic episodes yet. BJ and LeBron open the finale by introducing their ever-growing family of wigs — including BB, Sharonda, Aaliyah, and even a “sports wig” — while swapping stories about robes, wine nights, and Amazon’s increasingly disrespectful return policies. From late-night Temu purchases to handcuffing yourself to the bed to avoid midnight snacking, the episode wastes no time diving into peak-mess territory. Keller joins the second half with a question that sends the conversation spiraling in the best way: would you ever date someone who’s DL or still in the closet? What follows is a funny, honest, and deeply candid discussion about identity, shame, queer growth, the impact of The Velvet Rage, and why some men still refuse to post a real photo on dating a ...