Money is one of those topics that gets complicated fast because before you can teach your kids about it, you have to reckon with your own baggage around it. In this episode, Neil and Ali get personal about their own relationships with money, from allowances and video game regret to the anxiety of being surrounded by families who have more, and what all of that quietly teaches our kids without us ever saying a word.

The conversation covers what the research actually shows: that kids start forming beliefs about fairness, status, and value way earlier than most parents expect, and that how you talk about money (or don't) shapes their relationship with it for life. Neil and Ali dig into why parental modeling matters more than any lesson you could sit your kid down to deliver, how scarcity language can create anxiety, and why saying no sometimes ...