What Your Dad Didn't Teach You

What Your Dad Didn't Teach You

by Louis Farfields, Dating Coach for Men

Self-Improvement Relationships

Season 2

#18 - Why You Still Feel Insecure (Even After the Gym + Texting Skills)

It’s not about your looks. It’s not about your lines. It's something deeper, and it’s been steering your dating life for years. Dating coach for women Mathijs joins Louis and together they pull back the curtain on what's REALLY been holding you back.

Season 1

#17 - [Unfiltered] The Wild Side of Dating Success

You wanted more real-life stories, so here we go. In this episode, my close friend Niels and I share some of our wilder dating experiences. The kind of stuff that happens when you actually get good at the game. No theory, no over-explaining, just raw, unfiltered stories straight from real life. Enjoy!

#16 - Where Beginning Daters Get Stuck - And How To Break Free.

Most guys stay stuck in the beginner or intermediate stage of dating because they keep making the same mistakes. Some never escape them. In this episode, we break down the most common beginner and intermediate mistakes. We’ll show you what’s keeping you stuck and how to break free, and burst through to the next level.

#15 - From Player to Partner: The Transition No One Talks About

Is it time to move on, or are you just addicted to the chase? We discuss the emotional rollercoaster of high-level game, why some guys struggle to settle down, and the mental battles that come with shifting from short-term excitement to long-term fulfillment.

#14 - Decoding Her Tests: The Games You Didn’t Know You Were Playing

Think you’re just dating? Think again. Women test men in ways you don’t even realize, fake breakups, emotional swings, and subtle challenges designed to reveal who you really are. Are you a leader or a pushover? A confident man or a try-hard simp? Alyne is back to break down the hidden rules of attraction, what women are really looking for, and why most men fail the test before they even know it’s happening.

#13 - The 'One More' Rule: How Not Giving Up Changes Everything

You know that gut-punch moment when an approach flops, the vibe’s off, and you’re ready to call it a night? Most guys tap out. Ram didn’t. And that’s where things got interesting. From brutal rejections to ridiculous wins, we break down why sticking it out—just one more time—can change everything. If you’ve ever felt like quitting, this episode might just change your mind.

#12 - Hobbies That Make You A Better Man [Part 2]

Boxing, improv, and risk-taking... how much do hobbies matter in your dating journey? In this episode, we break down the skills that boost your attraction and expose the hobbies that don’t. Plus, guitar vs. surfboard: which one wins? Find out in this sequel to 'Hobbies That Make You A Better Man'

#11 - Hobbies That Make You a Better Man

Some hobbies make you stronger, more confident, and naturally more attractive—others, well… not so much. In this episode, we debate which hobbies actually help you in life and dating, why certain skills make a difference, and whether gaming, salsa, or fixing a sink gets you more points. Plus, we get into why having just a little bit of "gay energy" might actually work in your favor.

#10 - The Nerds Win: Strategy for Real Seduction

Alyne shares why nerds who work out might just be the ultimate relationship hack. We discuss the allure of intelligence, emotional depth, and how to strike a balance between confidence and vulnerability in dating.

#9 - Breaking Down Dating Myths: The Real Secrets to Irresistible Charm

What really pulls people in? Bryan's journey takes him from a work-obsessed, socially unsure guy to someone who gets what makes women click. We dive into the unexpected traits that skyrocket your appeal and why doubling down on playfulness might just be your unfair advantage in the dating game.

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