AuthenticallyYOU The Podcast
Season 1
Episode 1 Who am I?
The stigma around male sexuality
by Daniel Reader
In this first episode I discuss what led me here to this very moment and what inspired me to start my podcast. The big take home i'd like to leave you with is NOTHING is ever out of your reach if you are willing to step outside of your comfort zone and fully back yourself. Much love, Dan.
In this episode I wanted to talk about the stigma around male sexuality, as I believe it's the very thing that men struggle with the most, certainly true for myself! On one hand our sexuality is vital to further the species and on the other hand our sexuality is 'dirty' 'perverted' 'seedy' 'sleazy' oh and not to mention dangerous! Think that may affect the way men view their sexuality... Fucking right it does! This leaves men feeling like they can't bring that raw, primal 'I want to fuck you and make you my little slut' sexual identity into a loving relationship and this leaves our partners feeling like we're just not fully in (no pun intended). I want us men to be able to express our sexuality and open up about it just as freely as women and that is just one reason why I have felt called to work more with men! So... Yes we ARE sexual beings AND we can bring all of ourselves into a loving relationship with someone that WANTS to really get to know ALL of us and it all starts with YOU being willing to do the work around really owning ALL of yourself! Enjoy, Dan.
Obviously the title is a bit tongue in cheek but of course does have a serious undertone. For years of my life I have tried to fit in. I spent so long trying to be liked and accepted and loved for who I wasn't instead of who I was! Over these last few years and a shit load of therapy and coaching I have reached a point where the most important thing to me is the freedom to express myself. Once I stopped judging me, then I no longer had this overwhelming fear of others judging me. Now I can enjoy feeling sexy AF wearing women's underwear, Btw Primark actually do some amazing sets ;), I used to hate that place but now I can enjoy buying my own sexy underwear, I see the appeal ha! In this episode I give you the most impactful thing you can do for yourself when you are consumed with self judgement. If you are struggling and just want a safe non-judgemental space to be able to open up, then drop me a message on either Facebook or Instagram and I look forward to supporting you :). Much love, Dan.