Words can heal. They can also devastate. I learnt that the hard way during a mediumship circle, when I blurted out the wrong word to someone I care about — and I've never forgotten it.

That experience led me to Judy Wayman, a Norfolk celebrant and founder of Moonstone Ceremonies — and someone I know personally, because Judy led my mum's funeral. She has a gift for finding the exact words that honour a life, bring a room together, and sometimes, channel something beyond herself.

In this episode, Judy and I explore the deep parallels between celebrancy and mediumship — both of us, in different ways, speaking to the unseen. We talk about grief, storytelling, shamanism, and why the words we choose in our most vulnerable moments matter more than we realise.

Whether you're a developing medium, working with the bereaved, or simply some ...