In this episode, we unpack the behind-the-scenes debate inside The Blossom Society (TBS) — a coaching-led community for ethical non-monogamy — as the team wrestles with a deceptively simple question: how do you talk about sexual health and testing in a way that keeps people safer without drifting into medical advice, legal exposure, or privacy catastrophe?

You’ll hear how the Head of Coaching draws a hard line: we don’t prescribe testing intervals or interpret results — we coach the courage and language to have the conversation. The Marketing Director re-frames the message so it doesn’t feel like a clinic waiting room, tying it to a core principle: women are sovereign — boundaries aren’t “killing the mood”, they’re leadership. And the COO brings the cold realities: duty creep, GDPR ...