Platforms are stuck between a “safe ghost town” and a “toxic wasteland.” This Deep Dive unpacks a raw internal strategy thread from the Blossom Society, a dating/social platform trying to reduce harassment without broad shaming. Using insights from the 2025 YouGov study on young men and misogyny, they propose cluster-based risk tiers, scenario-based onboarding, and a psychological “inoculation” course that teaches algorithm literacy and rejection resilience (“attraction is not a debt”). We explore protective friction—rate limits, guided first messages, cool-down timeouts, and language nudges—and ask: can better interface design civilize online behavior?