Feeling Like You've Lost Yourself...

Feeling Like You've Lost Yourself? The Hidden Identity Loss of Caregiving

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The Care Collective Podcast by Mikayla Cluxton
S1 · E40
Jul 21, 2026
12:29

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Episode Description

Have you ever looked at an old photo of yourself and wondered, What happened to that version of me?

Caregiving has a way of quietly reshaping our lives. One appointment becomes dozens. One act of helping becomes years of responsibility. And somewhere along the way, it's easy to lose sight of the person you were before caregiving became part of your identity.

In this solo episode, Mikayla explores the often-overlooked grief of losing yourself while caring for someone else. Together, we'll talk about identity, role engulfment, the invisible sacrifices caregivers make, and why missing your old life doesn't mean you love your person any less.

If you've ever felt like you've become "just the caregiver," this conversation is your reminder that you're still in there.

In this episode, we discuss:

  • Why caregivers often feel like they've lost their identity
  • The invisible sacrifices that come with caregiving
  • What role engulfment is and how it affects your sense of self
  • Why grieving your old life is a normal part of the caregiving journey
  • Small, meaningful ways to reconnect with yourself again

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About The Care Collective Podcast

The Care Collective Podcast shares honest conversations about caregiving, aging, grief, resilience, and the emotional realities of supporting the people we love. Our goal is to help caregivers feel seen, supported, and less alone.

Keywords

Caregiving
Childcare
grief
dementia care
mental health
terminal illness