making friends in a new city

this morning I'm pumped up on caffeine, drinking a latte and talking about friendships. more specifically, how tf to make friends after moving to a new city. making new friends has always been a bit complex in my opinion. even when we were younger, I think kids were picky and choosy because kids are mean lol. as adults, without school and sport schedules, making friends isn't as seamless. in fact, it can be damn near impossible at times. now that I'm in a new city, I find myself wanting a girlfriend or two. especially since all my friends are on a completely different time zone. i share my personal experiences and do my best to give suggestions to help you make friends too.