Tales From the Trail by MatchPlay

Tales From the Trail by MatchPlay

by Scot Cooper
Season 1

48. Marc Hubbard - University of New Hampshire - Head Men's Soccer Coach

In this episode, I welcome Marc Hubbard, the head men’s soccer coach at the University of New Hampshire. At the time of release of this podcast, they have a bye in the NCAA tournament as a program high #8 seed in their seventh straight NCAA tourney appearance. Coach Hubbard has quickly built a highly successful program since he took over in 2015. He discusses a bit of how he did it and his thoughts around recruiting and coaching.

48. Coach Justin Kavanaugh - creator of the Athlete Centric Model and Author of the Best Selling Book 'Man Up'

In this episode, Justin Chezem of Christopher Newport University and I welcome Coach Justin Kavanaugh. He believes that every coach/athlete relationship starts with trust. With two decades of coaching experience, he's devoted to helping athletes achieve greatness and empowering athletes worldwide. His training reaches the fastest and most successful athletes in sports, and through his platform, he seeks to enhance the lives of every athlete he connects with because he genuinely believes that sport can change lives. He's the author of the best-selling book "MAN UP" and the visionary creator of the Athlete Centric model. This one is jam packed with stories and great information. Please enjoy!

47. Mindset Monday #2 with Eric Manuel

Hi and welcome to the Tales From the Trail podcast by MatchPlay, Mindset Monday edition. In these less than ten minute episodes, Eric Manuel, of Expert Mindset Coaching and I will address a different facet of mindset which apply to sport and life. To learn more about Eric’s practice, visit his website at www.expertmindsetcoaching.com Please take an extra minute to rate and review the podcast where you listen. This is a huge help! Share the podcast with whomever you think would be interested and will help in their process. Check us out on social media as well, the links can be found at matchplayrecruit.com and in the notes of this podcast.

46. Omar Salgado - Former MLS #1 Pick, Alfredo Bozalongo, & Marcos Villeda, Former W&M men's soccer players

In this episode, I welcome 3 fantastic guests. Omar Salgado was the first overall pick in the 2011 MLS Superdraft by the Vancouver Whitecaps. Additionally, he played in the youth national team systems of both Mexico and the United States. Towards the end of his professional career, he decided to pursue a career in law and last spring graduated from Northeastern University with his law degree. Along with Omar, I’m joined by Alfredo Bozalongo and Marcos Villeda. Both are recent graduates of the College of William & Mary who played soccer. Alfredo and Marcos had questions about pursuing professional soccer and law school. We decided to do portions of this episode in Spanish. This one is jam packed with stories and great information. Please enjoy!

45. Jay DeMerit - Rise x Shine Mentorship, Watford FC, USMNT

In this episode, US Soccer and Watford FC legend Jay DeMerit joins us for round 2. Justin Chezem of Christopher Newport University men’s soccer and Brendan Bourdage of William & Mary men’s soccer discuss with Jay his friendship with Elton John, growing a mentorship practice with his partner Dani Wilson, called RxS (Rise and Shine) Mentorship, and working on systems built off the pillars of Belief, Respect, Work Ethic, and positivity. Jay’s energy is contagious and he’s doing great things through his various ventures and speaking engagements. There is a lot to learn from this one. Summary In this conversation, Jay DeMerit discusses his relationship with Elton John and his experience as a captain of Watford FC. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the culture of the game and the deep connection between the club and its community. Jay also shares his insights on self-leadership and the four steps to unlocking true belief. He highlights the significance of intention, self-awareness, confidence, and belief in personal and professional growth. Additionally, Jay discusses the challenges of dealing with rejection and failure, and the importance of not taking things personally. In this conversation, Jay DeMerit discusses the importance of creating a foundational mindset, the Rise and Shine mentorship program, and the impact of social media on mental health. Takeaways Understanding the culture of the game and the deep connection between a club and its community is crucial for players. Self-leadership involves setting clear intentions, being self-aware, building confidence, and developing true belief in oneself. Dealing with rejection and failure is part of the journey, and it is important to not take things personally. Feedback and continuous self-reflection are essential for personal and professional growth. Leadership in sports and coaching is becoming more challenging due to the changing mindset and expectations of younger players. Creating a foundational mindset is crucial for success. It involves taking responsibility for one's own journey and not comparing oneself to others. The Rise and Shine mentorship program aims to provide opportunities for kids to develop a positive mindset and live in a high-performance environment. The digital program and mentorship offered by Rise and Shine focus on helping young people discover their authentic selves and develop skills in various areas. Social media can contribute to stress and anxiety, as it promotes superficial external validation and comparison. It is important to prioritize authenticity and self-discovery. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Elton John's Involvement 04:35 The Role of Being a Captain 11:41 The Disconnect with Younger Players 21:44 Self-Leadership and the Four Steps 34:46 The Importance of Awareness and Feedback 39:26 Not Taking Things Personally and Embracing Failure 40:03 Creating a Foundational Mindset 44:03 Rise and Shine Mentorship Program 48:23 Digital Program and Mentorship 51:29 The Impact of Social Media

44. Mindset Monday #1 - Eric Manuel - Expert Mindset Coaching

Mindset Monday is with mindset coach Eric Manuel and we explore different aspects of the mindset of high performers that apply to sport and life. These brief episodes will give you something to consider about your mindset as you start your week. To learn more about Eric’s practice, visit his website at www.expertmindsetcoaching.com

43. Mike Singleton- Washington & Lee University Men's Soccer & Brendan Bourdage, PhD, William & Mary Men's Soccer

In this episode I’m joined by Mike Singleton, head coach of men’s soccer at Washington & Lee University in Lexington, VA and former associate head coach of the men’s team at William & Mary in Williamsburg, VA Brendan Bourdage. These guys go fairly deep into their thoughts about their philosophies on coaching student athletes, developing leaders and all around good people.

42. Michael Zabala - XO Armor

In this episode, I welcome Michael Zabala, the founder of an innovative company called XO Armor. This company is changing how health care providers can help athletes quickly get back to training and competing post injury. Michael tells the story about how 3D scanning and printing a splint at Auburn University got a star receiver back on the field to deliver outstanding performance despite a hand injury. Since then, XO Armor has grown and provides 3D printed splints, guards, and casts for some of the best athletes in the United States not only due to injury but in prevention as well. XO Armor offers these solutions in the field of sports and healthcare.

41. Emmett Rutkowski (Stetson University), Drew Crawford (Yale), Jack Roberts (St. Louis University)

In this episode I welcome back Emmett Rutkowski, the head coach of men’s soccer at Stetson University. We are joined by two of his old assistant coaches: Jack Roberts, assistant coach of men’s soccer at St. Louis University and Drew Crawford, an assistant coach at Yale University men’s soccer. They bring their unique insights from different experiences and colleges to the podcast. I’m certain you’ll find it enjoyable and valuable. Please take an extra minute to rate and review the podcast where you listen. This is a huge help! Share the podcast with whomever you think would be interested and will help in their process. Check us out on social media as well, the links can be found at matchplayrecruit.com

40. Richmond Strikers Players, Mary Shimko, Brandeis Women's Soccer, Justin Chezem, Christopher Newport Men's Soccer

In this episode I welcome two current youth players and two college coaches. Mary Shimko, the head coach of women’s soccer at Brandeis University and Justin Chezem of Christopher Newport University have a great conversation with two members of the Richmond Strikers, Jack Cranston, a defensive midfielder on the Boys U19 Elite boys team and Emma Sicat, of the U19 Elite girls team. Both student-athletes want to continue playing in college and have the opportunity to ask questions of the coaches and vice versa. There is a ton of useful guidance that applies to everyone and insights into how coaches think about recruiting. A big thank you to Glenn Gray, a previous guest of the podcast, who is the college advisor for the Richmond Strikers for helping make this happen. The conversation covers various aspects of the recruiting process, including communication with coaches, academic requirements, the importance of showcases and ID camps, and the use of marketing skills. The chapters provide insights into what coaches look for in recruits, the frequency of updates to coaches, and the importance of personalizing emails. The conversation also touches on the emotions and timeline involved in the recruiting process. The conversation covers various aspects of the college soccer experience, including the importance of the overall college experience, life outside of soccer, choosing the right school, handling rejection, alternative paths, staying involved in the sport, financial considerations, having financial discussions with coaches, knowing where you stand with coaches, and recruiting timelines. The college experience is about more than just soccer, so it's important to consider factors such as location, campus culture, and academic programs when choosing a school. Not every player will have the opportunity to play consistently or at all in college, so it's crucial to find a school where you will be happy and fulfilled regardless of your playing time. The transfer portal is an option for players who are unhappy with their initial college choice, but it's best to choose a school where you can see yourself being happy for four years. If you don't receive an offer from your top choice schools, it's important to have alternative plans and consider other ways to stay involved in the sport, such as refereeing or coaching. Having open and honest conversations with coaches about financial considerations is crucial, as it can impact your ability to attend a particular school. Knowing where you stand with coaches and asking for feedback can help you gauge your chances of being recruited and make informed decisions about your college options. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Coach Noah 01:08 What Coaches Look for in Recruits 02:53 Academic Requirements for Recruits 04:04 Initiating and Maintaining Communication with Coaches 06:02 Frequency of Updates to Coaches 08:40 Number of Schools on Recruit's List 10:25 Geographical Considerations in Recruiting 11:25 Upcoming Showcases and Tournaments 13:32 Importance of Showcases and ID Camps 18:01 Using Marketing Skills in the Recruiting Process 21:08 Choosing Business and Marketing as Majors 24:26 Important Information to Include in Emails to Coaches 33:52 Emotions and Timeline in the Recruiting Process 42:16 The Importance of the College Experience 43:07 Life Outside of Soccer 44:21 Choosing the Right School 45:19 The Transfer Portal 46:20 Handling Rejection 47:13 Alternative Paths 49:24 Staying Involved in the Sport 51:29 Financial Considerations 55:38 Having Financial Discussions with Coaches 59:16 Knowing Where You Stand with Coaches 01:04:17 Recruiting Timelines
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