
Are Your Kids Obeying You, or Are They Surviving You?
Spiritually Formed by Brian & Katie Hess
E23
Aug 28, 2026
24:45
Episode notes
If our kids do what we want because they're afraid of us, are they actually obeying us, or are they surviving us?
Every parent wants to have obedient kids, but what if making obedience the goal is doing more harm than good?
The goal of obedience leads to justified harshness, and our methods of parenting end up looking like anger, fear, threats, and intimidation.
In this episode, Brian and Katie Hess discuss Jesus' value for obedience and His method for leading us there, which is through love and connection.
Keywords
Spiritual Formation
Christian Parenting
Discipleship
Christian Living
Christian Family
Christian Discipleship
Biblical Parenting
How do I disciple my kids?