80. Riding the Hormonal Rollercoa...

80. Riding the Hormonal Rollercoaster with Confidence Through Your 40's

The Fit and Unfiltered Podcast by Nicola Graham
S3 · E51
Sep 30, 2026
36:27

Episode notes

In this episode I am talking about riding the hormonal wave in your 40s, drawing on real conversations from the Women in Wellness event, including my own recent dip in gym motivation and why having a clear plan, structure and tracking is what keeps you progressing even when you do not feel like it.

I unpack how negative self-talk and comparison drive self-sabotage, why we need to rewrite the rule book around menstrual cycle expectations in perimenopause, and how building resilience starts with small actions that create evidence you can trust yourself.

I also answer two audience questions on balancing cardio and strength for fat loss, and what to actually do when you wake up in perimenopausal rage with only 30 minutes to spare before the day begins.

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00:00 Hormonal Wave Intro

00:17 Wellness Event Takeaways

02:20 Out of Groove Confession

04:27 Plan Beats Motivation

06:54 Rewrite Cycle Rules

11:12 Stop the Self Beatdown

13:20 Build Resilience Evidence

16:57 Thriving and Nutrition Shift

20:42 Cardio vs Strength for Fat Loss

25:24 Morning Rage Reset Routine

28:42 Front Load Calories Calm

34:25 Come Home to Yourself

35:06 Final Breath and Next Steps

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