In this episode of The Nicola Graham Podcast, I break down the most common mistakes I see women make when trying to stay in a calorie deficit while chasing a lean, toned, strong look. I explain why mega-low calories can make you drop weight fast but still feel “soft,” and how repeated crash dieting can lead to losing muscle and regaining more body fat over time, especially for women 35+.

Covering why a sustainable deficit (around 300-500 calories below maintenance, adjusted for stress) matters, why under-eating protein stops you building muscle, and how to think about calories like a weekly “bank balance” rather than perfection every day.

I also share why post-workout nutrition helps recovery, reduces cravings, and supports fat loss, plus how my Thriving Women community can help with structure and high-protein meal ideas.

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