Remix Reality Podcast

Remix Reality Podcast

by Lili Tombe
Season 2

Where I've Been & What I've Learned

We're Backkkkkk ! Catch up with me as I share a bit about my time abroad so far & more! I keep it real as I talk about the highs, lows, and everything in between as we start off season 2 of Remix Reality ✨
Season 1

✨ Signing Off & Reflecting on Season One ✨

It’s the last episode of the season (!!) and I’m wrapping things up the best way I know how with a warm Q&A all about growth, and the future of the podcast. Think of this as a little catch-up! This season has meant so much to me, and I’m so grateful for every listen, DM, and every moment i got to connect with you all! See you guys soon💗

Am I Really Living or Just Performing in My Life?

Are we truly living or just performing for the world around us? In this episode, I reflect on the pressure to appear put together, interesting, and so much more. We dive into the quiet fear that if a moment isn’t documented, it won’t be remembered and how that very fear can distort the memory itself. What happens when we stop trying to make life look perfect, and just let ourselves be in it? Maybe presence, not proof, is what makes something real memorable.

Staying Gentle When Life Isn’t: A Heart That Won’t Harden

The world will give you every reason to grow cold to let bitterness, burnout, and betrayal harden your heart. But what if holding onto a tender heart is the bravest thing you can do? In this episode, we talk about the quiet resilience of a gentle spirit, the pain and beauty of not shutting down, and why refusing to harden your heart may just be the most powerful thing you can do.

The Art of Being Seen

There’s a difference between being looked at and being truly known. In this episode, we talk about what it means to feel seen in friendships and beyond, the good, the hard, and everything in between. From feeling invisible to finding people who truly get us, I share stories about showing up for each other and making space for others to do the same. Because being seen isn’t just about being noticed, it’s about real connection.

Things I Thought I Had Figured Out By Now

We’re getting real about the expectations we place on ourselves and what it actually looks like to grow, heal, and evolve. From the myth of having it all together to the hard truths about self accountability, we’re unpacking the lessons life teaches us, sometimes more than once. We’ll talk about why healing isn’t a linear, how to protect your peace, and what it means to let go of timelines and trust that the right doors will open when they're meant for you. This is your reminder that it’s okay to be a work in progress!

Reasons, Seasons, and Lifetimes

Not every friendship is forever, and that’s okay. This episode dives into why some people are just in our lives for a little while, and how regardless of the length of time, every connection still matters.

Decoding Fear

Fear will show up, it’s supposed to. Especially when you’re stepping into something meaningful, unfamiliar, or stretching yourself and skills in new ways. You’re scared because it matters to you! But just because you feel fear, it doesn’t mean it’s in charge. In this episode, we unpack how fear masks itself as “logic,” why it gets loud when you're close to something real, and what it actually looks like to move forward anyway. You don’t need to live a life absent of fear. You just need to move despite feeling it. Let's talk about it!

Being Your Biggest Critic: The Key to Self-Growth

People always say, “Be kind to yourself.” But what if real self-kindness means holding yourself to high standards because you know you’re capable of more? In this episode, we’re flipping the script on self-criticism—learning how to use it as a tool for growth instead of a weapon for self-doubt. We’ll talk about why it’s a you vs. you game, the dangers of relying on external validation, and how successful people critique themselves not to tear themselves down, but to level up. Plus, I’ll break down how to analyze mistakes without losing confidence, why failure is just data, and how to create a self-critique system that actually helps you grow.

Spring Cleaning – Clearing Space for a Fresh Start

Out with the old, in with the new. This episode is all about resetting your space, mind, and habits to step into a season of renewal. We’re talking about decluttering both physically and mentally by organizing your space, curating a healthier digital life, and letting go of emotional baggage. From clearing out your notes app and setting social media boundaries to embracing new routines and self-care habits, it’s time to make room for what truly matters. Plus, we’re reflecting on habits to leave behind—like overcommitting, people-pleasing, and procrastinating on what truly matters. Let’s reset, refresh, and step into this new season with a fresh start . 🌷🌸✨
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