Who have you frozen in time from their worst moment?

Conflict hurts. People disappoint us. We disappoint each other. And sometimes, long after the conflict itself has passed, we continue carrying the resentment, rehearsing what happened, gathering support for our side, and seeing the person through the lens of the worst thing they did. What happens to our relationships, our families, our workplaces, and our world when we keep doing this to each other?

Mercury is retrograde in Cancer from June 29 through July 23, offering an opportunity to look again. Not only at how we communicate, but at the emotional history shaping how we perceive. Where has an old hurt become a lens? Who are we still seeing through the eyes of resentment? What might change if we took the space we genuinely need to feel safe, did the inner work to release what we’r ...