No One Wants to Hear That: Overcoming Vocal Trauma in Singing

No One Wants to Hear That: Overcoming Vocal Trauma in Singing

by Tiun Duong
The Art of Beginning Again
In this episode, I talk honestly about losing my sense of connection—to joy, creativity, physical movement, emotional release—and what it means to rebuild when those things disappear. About asking, What else can I do for myself? and How do I reconnect when I don’t recognize myself anymore? This season finale is about starting over. About making art again when you feel like you’ve forgotten how. About being a beginner again. About facing the quiet terror of admitting, “I don’t know who I am. I don’t know what makes me happy.” To everyone who has been listening since the beginning—thank you. I’m deeply grateful for your support, your trust, and your presence. I’ll be taking a break before returning for Season 2, with the hope of coming back with more intention, creativity, and honesty.
Listener Submissions
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In this week’s episode, Kat and I dive into your submissions with full honesty, zero filter, and a whole lot of love. We validate your experiences, talk some well-deserved shit, and laugh our way through the chaos together.
Trick or Teach: Boundaries for Voice Teachers
Join us for a spooky(ish) episode as we explore the world of boundaries in voice teaching! We’ll unpack the different types of boundaries, what they mean, and how to maintain them as voice teachers—no tricks, just treats for your teaching practice.
Racism, Micro-Aggressions, and the Weight it has on Our Voices; Part 2
Join me and an anonymous guest—whose voice has been altered for privacy—as we continue part two of our series on Racism, Microaggressions, and the weight they place on our voices, this time through the lens of family dynamics.
Embracing Voice and Culture: Isabella Lamadriz on Trauma, Identity, and Cuban Art Song Project
In this episode of No One Wants to Hear That, soprano and Cuban Art Song Project founder Isabella Lamadriz shares her journey from classical training to reclaiming her voice and identity. We dive into her personal story regarding the unspoken pressures of life as a professional classical singer, the challenges singers face when the industry tells them their time has “passed," and the lack of Latin American music in vocal education. Through candid conversation, Isabella shares how overcoming vocal trauma led her to embrace the Cuban Art Song Project, explore new creative avenues, and reconnect with her Cuban heritage—showing how reclaiming one’s voice can become a powerful form of healing and artistic renewal.
Reclaiming Your Voice (Featuring Estelle Idoko)
Join me on No One Wants to Hear That as I sit down with Estelle Idoko, singer and host of Sing Confidently, Live Creatively as we talk about her personal journey into singing, the fear many face around using their voice, and empowering advice for anyone ready to start singing—no matter their age or experience.
I Don't Owe You My Voice
This was one of the most difficult episodes I’ve ever written—and one I was genuinely afraid to release. It speaks to some of my most personal experiences: the cost of loyalty, the ache of disillusionment, and the deep reckoning that comes with choosing yourself after years of silence. In this episode, I open up about the quiet unraveling of a space I once believed was safe, and the painful clarity that followed. If you’ve ever felt manipulated, overlooked, or trapped in a space that once felt like home, this episode is for you. This isn’t about blame—it’s about reclaiming your voice and your truth.
Why Does My Voice Shake?--The Connection Between Emotional Trauma and Vocal Stability
"Why Does My Voice Shake?" – The Connection Between Emotional Trauma and Vocal Stability If your voice shakes when you sing or speak—even when you're prepared—you’re not alone. This episode of No One Wants to Hear That explores how emotional trauma and nervous system stress can show up in the voice. A shaky voice isn’t a flaw—it’s often a sign your body doesn’t feel safe being heard. Tune in for gentle insight, compassion, and simple tools to help your voice feel supported and free again.
Loving Your Voice Again: Strategies for Self-Compassion and Vocal Acceptance
In this episode of No One Wants to Hear That, Tiun explores the emotional impact of vocal trauma and the path to healing. Whether your voice has been hurt by criticism, fatigue, or fear, this episode offers gentle, practical strategies to rebuild trust, cultivate self-compassion, and reconnect with your unique sound.
Racism, Micro-Aggressions, and the Weight it has on Our Voices; Part 1
In this two-part series of No One Wants to Hear That, host Tiun dives into the profound impact of racism and micro-aggressions on singers' voices and identities. Part One examines professional spaces—choirs, studios, and opera houses—where harmful comments and biases undermine artistic growth. Part Two will shift focus to family dynamics and their lasting influence on self-expression. Through raw, personal stories, this series explores resilience, healing, and the courage to reclaim one’s voice in the face of systemic barriers.
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