Bobbie handed me the phone and AJ my granddaughter was distraught and asked me "Pop Pop, what did you do with the giant log", I didn't know what she meant and then it hit me..... I moved the giant log / tree that had been in the front yard her entire life, we climbed on it, she climbed on it, it was part of her world. The background is that we were moving loads of dirt and we had rented some equipment that I could move the giant log. Garrett and I had talked about it but we didn't consider the kids, AJ and Cal had always known the giant log in the front yard and it was part of their playground, their world. I failed to consider everyone that was affected by change, even though change is inevitable, always communicate to everyone that is affected.