Mindset Money Success

Mindset Money Success

by Loraine Marshall
Self-Improvement
Season 2

When Four Months Turns Into Four Years.

In this episode, Loraine describes her harrowing experience of post-separation abuse after the end of an 11-year relationship. She details the systemic failures she encountered within the justice system and the lack of support she received from organizations meant to help survivors of gender-based violence. Loraine shares how she was pressured to accept an unfair financial settlement, faced threats and intimidation, and endured a prolonged legal battle marked by false allegations and manipulative tactics from her ex-partner. Best Moments: ● Loraine's powerful account of her ex-partner's "four-sentence discard speech" after he moved their belongings to Spain. ● The chilling description of the escalating threats and intimidation she faced, including the arbitrary four-month deadline set by her ex-partner. ● The audio clip from the recorded meeting where her ex-partner's controlling and abusive behaviour is audible. ● Loraine's persistent efforts to navigate the legal system, seek help from various organizations and fight for her rights despite numerous setbacks and conflicting advice. ● The ultimate dismissal of all charges against Loraine and her determination to share her story to raise awareness and advocate for change. Key Takeaways: ● Post-separation abuse is a serious issue that often goes unrecognized and unsupported. ● The legal system can be a challenging and even hostile environment for survivors of abuse, especially when dealing with emotional and psychological abuse. ● It is crucial to document all instances of abuse and seek support from trusted sources. ● Women in cohabiting relationships may face unique legal challenges and receive less protection than married women. ● Speaking out about abuse and advocating for systemic change is essential to improving the experiences of survivors. Success With Loraine Merch Self-Care and Narissist Aware Collection ★☆★ Follow Me Here ★☆★ Clip – from the recorded meeting post-separation. Language Warning.Loraine is dedicated to creating a supportive community for women over 40 who are dealing with trauma or grief from relationship endings, providing a safe space for connection, resources, and transformation. Buy Me A Coffee - Help Start A Non-Profit Association Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
S2 · E3
Nov 27, 2024
1:37:49

I Fought To Escape Post-Separation Abuse — The System Did Not Help Me.

Explicit
In this episode, Loraine describes her experience of post-separation abuse by her former partner in Spain. She details the legal battles she endured, including accusations of defamation and the "precarious" eviction process she faced. Loraine highlights the emotional toll of the abuse, emphasizing the manipulative tactics used by her former partner, including emotional devaluation and financial control. She shares her personal journey of healing and self-discovery, offering support and resources for others experiencing similar situations. Link to SLAPP litigations Link to Weaponising Defamation Key Takeaways ● Post-separation abuse is a serious issue. The story illustrates the different forms this abuse can take, including legal threats, financial manipulation, and emotional abuse. ● The legal system doesn't always protect victims. Despite clear evidence of abuse, Loraine was forced to fight a lengthy legal battle and was advised to file a gender violence complaint, which she was reluctant to do. ● Emotional abuse can be just as damaging as physical abuse. Loraine describes the "emotional devaluation" she experienced, highlighting the insidious nature of this type of abuse. ● Forgiveness can be exploited by abusers. Loraine's attempt to forgive her partner was met with continued manipulation and control. ● Recovery and empowerment are possible. This journey demonstrates the importance of speaking out, seeking support, and reclaiming one's identity after experiencing abuse. Best Moments ● The moment Loraine learns the criminal case against her was dismissed. A powerful moment to emphasize relief and vindication. ● The revelation of the partner's confession and his ongoing affair. This moment highlights the emotional abuse and manipulation experienced. ● The description of the partner's angry outburst during their recorded meeting. Sharing the audio clip in the podcast makes this moment even more impactful, illustrating the intimidation and threats Loraine faced. ● The decision to publish the recording on YouTube and include the transcript in her book. This showcases her courage and determination to expose the abuse and empower other victims. ● The book's success, written under the pen name Loren Keeling, reached Number 1 on Amazon UK in the "Self Help for Abuse" category. This is a triumphant moment, signifying her resilience and the positive impact she's making. Success With Loraine Merch Self-Care and Narissist Aware Collections ★☆★ Follow Me Here ★☆★ Buy Me A Coffee - Help Start A Non-Profit Association Supportive community for women over 40 who are dealing with trauma or grief from relationship endings, providing a safe space for connection, resources, and transformation. No Cost, Zero Commitment, Support Community for Women over 40. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
S2 · E2
Nov 26, 2024
22:01

Moving The goalposts: Settlement vs Eviction. Psychological Abuse

In this episode, Loraine delves into the manipulation and gaslighting she experienced from the person who was part of her life for eleven years. Apart from not being able to negotiate, he controlled the process by dangling the offers while at the same time threatening to leave me with nothing while reducing the offer from €115,000 to €13,000 or nothing at all. KEY TAKEAWAYS You can not negotiate with me ´what Loraine's former partner had told her. Legal advice that told me to file a gender violence complaint. The former couple's joint solicitor was not very helpful, as he told Loraine she had no rights in Spain. Six failed attempts at trying to negotiate or mediate. Gaslighting and psychological abuse. As the former partner kept changing his mind. Introducing the new wife in July 2021, on the day we met to try and sort out a financial settlement. A red flag in the cycle of abuse is triangulation. BEST MOMENTS Loraine's former partner turned hostile after he ended the relationship. Loraine thought that her former partner would end things amicably. She was shocked by how he changed his behaviour very quickly. A meeting they had to discuss things turned into intimidation and threats of being thrown out of the door. Regarding the proposal Loraine made to her former partner, he said, "That's a terribly terribly terribly bad idea, and it's not going to happen." The eviction process was started by a Barcelona Solicitor in June 2021, yet Loraine obtained a signed agreement in July 2021. ★☆★ Follow Me Here ★☆★ https://linktr.ee/loraine_mms Success With Loraine Merch Self-Care and Narissist Aware Collection https://successwithloraine.com/merch/ You can also join the Author in a no-cost, zero-commitment support community.  Trauma to Transformation for women aged 40+ https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/ Buy Me A Coffee - Help Start A Non-Profit Association https://buymeacoffee.com/successwithloraine Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
S2 · E1
Nov 17, 2024
35:25

Podcast Interview: This week Meet Jez Wood From Kove Properties! Failure is Part Of Success.

Podcast Interview: Meet Jez Wood from Kove Properties this week! Failure is Part Of Success. #Mindset #Money #SuccessIn this episode, Loraine Marshall interviews guest Jez Wood. Jez shares his story of starting Kove Properties just before 2020 when he and his business partner were furloughed from their main employment. He explains how this gave him the impetus to create the business and move faster. Jez recognised that through fear and chaos, there was opportunity. They set up a remote business in different locations. They use their knowledge of the Northeast locations to offer property investments to individuals who are time-poor and seeking a stable investment and passive income type. Jez has a podcast called Beyond The Fail; he interviews other business entrepreneurs who speak about failures and acknowledge how failure is often seen as a taboo; there is a shame around debt and business failure, and Jez recognises that failure can be part of success. Jez covers the taboo of mental health and talks about how therapy has helped him since 2020. KEY TAKEAWAYS Seize Opportunity in Crisis: Moments of chaos can reveal new possibilities. Remote Work Can Be Effective: Location doesn’t limit business if you have the right expertise. Failure as a Learning Tool: Embrace and learn from failure as part of the entrepreneurial journey. Mental Health Matters: Seeking help is crucial for personal and business success. Stay Resourceful: Perseverance is essential in the face of setbacks and challenges.BEST MOMENTS Starting Kove Properties: Jez describes the decision to launch Kove while furloughed, turning a challenge into an opportunity. Remote Business Success: Insights on building a business remotely and leveraging local expertise for clients. Taboo of Failure: Jez’s views on why failure shouldn’t be stigmatized, sharing examples from his experiences. Mental Health Discussion: Jez opens up about therapy's role in his life since 2020. The Importance of Resilience: Jez reflects on resilience, growth, and pushing through fear.Kove Properties https://koveproperties.co.uk/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jezwood/ Podcast Beyond The Fail https://www.youtube.com/@BeyondTheFailPodcast/videos Episode with Mark Lloyd - I Hit Rock Bottom https://youtu.be/PhINkXa_Dgk?si=6lxZZwhuTkTTF4HuBuy Me A Coffee - Help Start A Non-Profit Association https://buymeacoffee.com/successwithlorainePodcast YouTubehttps://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts “Discover Our Best-Selling T-Shirts” MERCH: https://successwithloraine.com/merch/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
E53
Nov 8, 2024
37:39

Breaking Free From Emotional Abuse Patterns

In this episode, Loraine delves into her personal experiences surrounding domestic violence and financial manipulation during her tumultuous relationship with her former partner. As October marks Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Loraine shares insights from her July 2021 email communications, revealing the emotional and financial tactics. Loraine discusses the conflicting legal advice she received, the emotional manipulation involving her deceased father, and the power dynamics that persisted even after their separation. KEY TAKEAWAYS The episode highlights the tactics used by a former partner to maintain control over the host, including emotional manipulation and financial coercion. The dynamics between the host and her former partner illustrate a significant power imbalance. The partner leverages financial resources and emotional tactics to exert control. Loraine discusses the criticism received for sharing personal experiences on social media, emphasizing the importance of having a support network and the challenges faced when communicating one's truth publicly. The episode outlines the difficulties encountered in the legal process, including conflicting advice from legal professionals and the manipulation of financial offers during mediation. Loraine is dedicated to creating a supportive community for women over 40 who are dealing with trauma or grief from relationship endings, providing a safe space for connection, resources, and transformation. No Cost, Zero Commitment, Support Community for Women over 40 https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/ https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts Merch: https://successwithloraine.com/merch/ ★☆★ Follow Me Here ★☆★ https://linktr.ee/loraine_mms BEST MOMENTS "The conflicting advice then was, do not make any more gender violence complaints. You will make him angry." "P's behaviour... aligns with the pattern of a perpetrator seeking to maintain control and silence their victim." "He uses a tactic that I wrote about in my first book. DARVO, an acronym... based on the work of psychologist Jennifer Freed." "This constant shifting of terms keeps Loraine in a state of uncertainty and insecurity." "Money and legal actions are the weapons that manipulators use to emotionally and financially devastate their victims." HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former property management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016. She had dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner, and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
E52
Oct 10, 2024
24:14

Understanding UGC: A Creator's Journey

In this episode Loraine delves into the world of User Generated Content (UGC) creators, addressing common questions and misconceptions surrounding this emerging field. Loraine explains what a UGC creator is, the benefits of becoming one, and how individuals can start creating content even without a large following or the need to show their face. She shares her journey into UGC creation, highlighting the potential for earning income through platforms like TikTok, YouTube, and Instagram. Key Takeaways: Understanding UGC: UGC stands for user-generated content, which includes original videos, images, reviews, and other media created by individuals rather than brands. Opportunities for Income: Becoming a UGC creator can be a viable way to earn extra income or transition into a full-time job. Access to Free Products: UGC creators often receive free products from brands to showcase in their content. Faceless Content Creation: Being a UGC creator without showing your face is possible. Creators can use graphics, animations, and voiceovers to engage their audience while maintaining anonymity. Earnings Potential: The income of UGC creators can vary widely based on experience, niche, and client types. Some creators have reported significant earnings, with diversification of income streams through coaching and affiliate marketing being common among successful creators. Best Moments: "The term UGC stands for user generated content. So, a UGC creator is a creator that is in charge of producing original videos, images, reviews, comments, and other forms of media." "Becoming a content creator can be a great way to earn extra money or even make it your full-time job." "User-generated content creators often get free products from brands to showcase in their posts and videos." "You can be a UGC creator with no followers. The important thing for creators is to have excellent content creation skills, not a large following." "Most successful UGC creators diversify their income streams with things like coaching, affiliate marketing, social media management." No Cost, Zero Commitment, Support Community for Women over 40 https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/ https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts Merch: https://successwithloraine.com/merch/★☆★ Follow Me Here ★☆★ https://linktr.ee/loraine_mms HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. FREE GROUP: https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
E51
Oct 3, 2024
11:28

Money and Monitising Social Media Platforms

In this episode, Loraine delves into the concept of monetizing social media platforms to create passive income streams. She breaks down the monetization options available on YouTube, TikTok, and Facebook, and shares key insights into how even beginners can start earning with small audiences. By exploring affiliate marketing, brand partnerships, and other methods, Loraine highlights practical ways to grow your digital presence and income. Tune in to learn how you can turn your passion or content creation into a sustainable online business. Key Takeaways: Entry Levels for Monetization: Learn about the different requirements to start earning on YouTube, TikTok, and Facebook, including YouTube’s Partner Program and TikTok’s Creator Fund. Early Monetization Methods: Understand how beginners can use affiliate marketing, sponsorships, and shoppable posts to earn even with a smaller following. Diversifying Income Streams: Discover how creators can combine affiliate marketing, ads, merchandise, and brand deals for multiple income sources. Importance of Niche Audiences: Loraine explains how cultivating a targeted, engaged audience can lead to quicker brand deals, even before reaching platform-specific milestones. AdSense and Blogging: Explore how Google AdSense helps blog writers earn revenue through targeted ads, especially for content-heavy platforms like WordPress.Best Moments: Loraine explains the basic entry levels for YouTube Partner Program and how to achieve 1,000 subscribers and 4,000 watch hours to start earning ad revenue. A detailed breakdown of how affiliate marketing can be a great income stream for both YouTube and TikTok creators, even at the start of their journey. Loraine discusses her own experience with using Google AdSense on her blog in the early 2000s and shares tips on getting started. Insight into how cultivating a niche audience can be more valuable than large numbers, as niche creators can attract better sponsorship deals. A motivating call to action, emphasizing how consistency, learning, and small improvements can grow your channel or blog into a life-changing income stream. Remember: Monetization is just one aspect of building a successful online presence. Focus on creating valuable content, building relationships with your audience, and exploring different avenues for revenue generation. With consistency and work ethic, you can turn your passion into a profitable venture.No Cost, Zero Commitment, Support Community for Women over 40 https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/ https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts Merch: https://successwithloraine.com/merch/★☆★ Follow Me Here ★☆★ https://linktr.ee/loraine_mms HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. FREE GROUP: https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/pr
E50
Sep 27, 2024
23:37

Steps To Reclaim Your Emotional Power

In this episode, Loraine delves into the concept of the emotional energy spiral, exploring how trauma and grief can lead individuals to a state of despair and low self-esteem. Lorraine shares her personal experiences with trauma, including the aftermath of a difficult relationship, and discusses the importance of recognizing where we are emotionally and how to take actionable steps towards healing. She outlines the ascending and descending spirals of emotional energy, emphasizing the power of creativity, forgiveness, and learning as tools for recovery. Lorraine also introduces her upcoming Facebook group focused on transforming trauma into empowerment, inviting listeners to join her on this journey of personal growth and success. KEY TAKEAWAYS The emotional energy spiral consists of a descending spiral filled with negative emotions such as grief, despair, and low self-esteem, and an ascending spiral that includes positive emotions like hopefulness, joy, and empowerment. Forgiveness is crucial in moving forward from trauma. It is not about absolving others of their actions but about freeing yourself from the burden of negative emotions and allowing yourself to heal. Engaging in creative activities like writing or starting a YouTube channel can help lift you out of negative emotions. Learning new skills is positioned as a way to boost your energy and move up the emotional spiral. Life will always present challenges, whether staying in a negative situation or taking steps toward improvement. It's essential to recognize that both paths will be difficult, but choosing to pursue growth and change can lead to a more fulfilling life. Joining supportive groups, such as a Facebook community focused on trauma to transformation, can provide a safe space for sharing experiences and learning from others. BEST MOMENTS "When we have fallen down this emotional energy spiral because of circumstances outside of our control, we have to think, how can I improve?" "Forgiveness isn't about the other person. It's about how you can improve your energy level and move forward from a situation." "You can move yourself forward by taking positive steps." "If you decide to say to yourself, this is what I want to achieve and take the steps, you can overcome the challenges." "This group that I'm opening, it's all about trauma to transformation." No Cost Support Community for Women over 40 https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/ https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts Merch: https://successwithloraine.com/merch/ HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
E49
Sep 18, 2024
30:12

Universal Laws for Abundant Living

In this episode, Loraine delves into the universal laws of prosperity, exploring seven key principles that can transform your life and enhance your personal growth. Drawing from her experiences with influential figures like Jim Rohn and Randy Gage, as well as the teachings of Catherine Ponder, Loraine discusses concepts such as the imaging law, vacuum law, law of tithing, circulation law, creativity law, law of giving and receiving, and the law of forgiveness. She emphasizes the importance of visualization, letting go of limiting beliefs, and the power of generosity in attracting abundance. KEY TAKEAWAYS Visualization is crucial for manifesting desires. By consistently imagining and holding a positive mental image of what you want, you can set the process of manifestation in motion. To welcome new abundance, it's essential to clear out old physical clutter, outdated beliefs, and emotional baggage. Creating a "vacuum" allows for new opportunities to enter your life. Giving back a portion of what you receive (typically 10%) aligns you with the flow of prosperity. This practice fosters a sense of community and supports the cycle of giving and receiving. Prosperity, like energy, must circulate to grow. Allowing wealth, love, and positive energy to flow freely in your life creates a continuous cycle of giving and receiving, attracting more abundance. Holding onto resentment and grudges creates energetic blocks that hinder prosperity. By practicing forgiveness—both of others and oneself—you can release these blocks and open the door to new opportunities and positive energies. BEST MOMENTS "What you can consistently imagine and hold in your mind's eye, then you can actually create this in your life." "In order to use this vacuum law, it's like you've got to make room for the prosperity in your life." "The more you give of yourself without expecting a return, the more that will come back to you." "Forgiveness of others and forgiveness of yourself will release these blocks so that you can be on the path to success." "Life becomes worthwhile when you have worthwhile goals." No Cost Support Community for Women over 40 https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/ https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts Merch: https://successwithloraine.com/merch/ HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
E48
Sep 12, 2024
26:37

Master Your Mindset : Overcome Success Blocks

In this episode, Loraine delivers a powerful discussion on how our beliefs, formed in childhood, can become the hidden barriers that prevent us from achieving success. She unpacks the concept of limiting beliefs, scarcity mindset, and how fear can often outweigh passion, causing us to shelf our dreams. Loraine also shares actionable steps to reprogram the mind using visualization, affirmations, and repetition to build a new, empowering mindset that will unlock your full potential. Key Takeaways: Childhood Beliefs Shape Our Mindset: The beliefs we internalize in childhood, often from our caregivers or environment, can either support or sabotage our success later in life. Limiting Beliefs Block Success: These ingrained beliefs, like “I’m not good enough” or “I’ll never have enough money,” create mental barriers that keep us from taking the steps needed to succeed. Scarcity Mindset Keeps You Stuck: Living in fear of lack — whether it's financial, emotional, or personal security — prevents individuals from taking risks and seeking new opportunities. The Power of Visualization: Visualizing your success and future self can help rewire the brain, creating a new reality where your goals feel achievable and real. Repetition is Key: Using affirmations and repeating positive beliefs helps to override the old, negative programming and form new, empowering habits of thought. Best Moments: “We internalize beliefs from a young age, sometimes without even realizing how deeply they affect our future choices.” “Scarcity and lack mindset—these are the invisible chains holding us back from abundance and success. Recognizing it is the first step to breaking free.” “Often, we shelf our dreams when fear speaks louder than passion. The trick is in learning to quiet the fear and listen to the possibilities.” “The mind is incredibly powerful. Through visualization and repetition, we can literally rewire our thinking and create new pathways for success.” “Affirmations work because they are the seeds we plant in our mind’s garden. With time, they grow into the reality we live in.”No Cost Support Community for Women over 40 https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/Video Podcast https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts Merch: https://successwithloraine.com/merch/ HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. She is currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation, including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
E47
Sep 6, 2024
21:10
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