Are You Part of the Problem or the Solution?
Do You Complain Instead of Resolve?
The Devil's Workshop or God's?
Do you spend more time focused on the problem or coming up with a solution? Tune into this discussion on 10/29/2025 from Living Radiance with LaCole "Purlz" Purley! In order to solve conflict it requires you to understand the other person has different thoughts and feelings Are you listening to understand or to rebuttal? It’s okay to not agreeDoesn’t mean you have to argue Remember you’re not by yourself Surround yourself with like-minded peopleAre they positive? Or are they negative? Being around more positive people makes you more positiveWhen you’re around negative people then you become more negative Part of regulating your emotions is understanding your own limitations How’s your prayer life? The only way to overcome a spirit of anger is a spirit of gratitudeAre you fearful or faithful? When you speak with someone during conflict, are you speaking out of anger or out of love? Know when to take time and care for yourself Can’t pour into another cup when yours is empty Do you spend more time focused on the problem or coming up with a solution? How can you lead when you have no one that you’re following? Psalm 139:14 CEV What you’ve experienced doesn’t have to define who you are “The 5 Love Languages” by: Gary ChapmanUnderstand what fills your love tank:Physical Touch Acts of Service Quality Time Receiving Gifts Words of Affirmation Restorative practicesWhat do you do to relax? How can you show love to yourself? How do you manage your time? Living Radiance is a movement to encourage the masses to live a holistic life with The Five Pillars of Health: spiritual, financial, mental/emotional, physical, and social for anyone of all ages to use in their every day life! Always ask yourself: Where am I spiritually? How am I financially? How is my mental health? What are my emotions? How is my physical health? How is my social health? How are my relationships? What are my daily habits? You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love. Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content! Let's connect! My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.app Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@purlz_?_r=1&_t=ZP-93q6GVgXfaB Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_purlz?igsh=MTVuamticWd1NXkyeA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1DibSKkaYP/?mibextid=wwXIfr Connect with me on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/lacole-purley-9668521b7 You can support the channel through Cashapp: https://cash.app/$CoCoPurlz
Do you complain and take for granted more than you love and appreciate? Tune into this discussion on 10/22/2025 on Living Radiance with LaCole "Purlz" Purley! Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content! Conflict resolution Avoiding conflict by not initiating conversation How to approach confrontation How to handle fears and overcome them Proverbs 17:24Indecision plays into the enemy’s hands because you’re wasting your most precious resource —- time The biggest downfall to most people’s blessings and personal growth is the inability to be open-minded enough to listen and to understand new informationRequires gaining new experiencesGetting outside comfort zone Having mentorship from those with fruit on the tree Proverbs 18:23-24 Proverbs 16:11-23 You don’t know what you don’t know Don’t allow pain/fear from past experiences limit you from new ones Every human being is full of new experiences and knowledge Pay attention! Energy vampires vs Energy Amplifiers Take accountability without making excuses nor alibisDo you have accountability partners? Do you have people qualified to hold you accountable?Are they someone who earned your respect? Proverbs 15:28-33 Self-analysis questions from “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon HillDo you complain often of “feeling bad?” If so, what is the cause? Do you find fault with other people at the slightest provocation? Do you frequently make mistakes in your work? If so, why? Are you sarcastic and offensive in your conversation? Living Radiance is a movement to encourage the masses to live a holistic life with The Five Pillars of Health: spiritual, financial, mental/emotional, physical, and social for anyone of all ages to use in their every day life! Always ask yourself: Where am I spiritually? How am I financially? How is my mental health? What are my emotions? How is my physical health? How is my social health? How are my relationships? What are my daily habits? You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love. Let's connect! My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.app Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@purlz_?_r=1&_t=ZP-93q6GVgXfaB Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_purlz?igsh=MTVuamticWd1NXkyeA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1DibSKkaYP/?mibextid=wwXIfr Connect with me on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/lacole-purley-9668521b7 You can support the channel through Cashapp: https://cash.app/$CoCoPurlz
Living Radiance is a movement to encourage the masses to live a holistic life and help people unlock and learn how to use their God-given gifts to pursue their purpose with love. I teach the 5 Pillars of Health: spiritual, financial, mental/emotional, physical, and social for anyone of all ages to use in their every day life. Always ask yourself: Where am I spiritually? How am I financially? How is my mental health? What are my emotions? How is my physical health? How is my social health? How are my relationships? What are my daily habits? You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love. Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content! “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill The 6 Basic Fears are:The fear of poverty The fear of criticism The fear of ill health The fear of loss of love of someone The fear of old age The fear of death Self-care is necessary because you can’t pour into someone else’s cup if yours is empty Set time boundaries Proverbs 18:21 Your words and thoughts have more power than you think so be cautious of what you sayHow’s your self-talk? Do you speak positively or negatively? Our feelings are our choices Other people’s opinions aren’t your reality The devil’s workshop and greatest fear is negative influenceAre you around energy vampires? Notice when the enemy is trying to make your situation worse than it actually is It’s up to you to change your mindset to a more positive one
Are you operating off of a spirit of fear or just being cautious? Tune into this discussion on 10/8/2025 from Living Radiance with LaCole "Purlz" Purley! Living Radiance is a movement to help people unlock and learn how to use their God-given gifts to pursue their purpose with love. I teach the 5 Pillars of Health: spiritual, financial, mental/emotional, physical, and social for anyone of all ages to use in their every day life. Always ask yourself: Where am I spiritually? How am I financially? How is my mental health? What are my emotions? How is my physical health? How is my social health? How are my relationships? What are my daily habits? You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love. * What is fear? - The misuse of the imagination God gave us * Dealing with fear * Joshua 1:9 * Psalm 4:8 * 1 Peter 5:7 * From “An Enemy Called Average” by John L. Mason on page 34 * Worry is a route which leads from somewhere to nowhere. Don’t let it direct your life * Action conquers fear; inaction builds fear * Journaling * Eliminating procrastination by replacing bad habits with better ones * Ex: Less time watching tv or social media. Replace that with more prayer, reading, journaling, exercising, and spending quality time with people and loved ones * Importance of having community * Instead of saying “I don’t like people” or “I’m not really a people person,” think “I haven’t found my tribe yet” or “I just haven’t found a lot of people that I genuinely like yet” * Stop allowing fear to dictate your actions and limit your relationships Let's connect! My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.app Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@purlz_?_r=1&_t=ZP-93q6GVgXfaB Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_purlz?igsh=MTVuamticWd1NXkyeA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1DibSKkaYP/?mibextid=wwXIfr Connect with me on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/lacole-purley-9668521b7 You can support the channel through Cashapp: https://cash.app/$CoCoPurlz #god #spirituality #health #christian #faith #podcast #reels #healing #motivation #motivational #viral #viralvideo #fitness #money #books #bible #biblestudy #bibleverse #reading #relationships #marriage #worklife