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Living Radiance

Living Radiance

by LaCole "Purlz" Purley

Self-Improvement Mental Health

This Is Your Year: Renew Your Mind, Break Old Habits & Walk in Freedom With Christ

A new year means another opportunity—but what are you going to do with the time God has given you? In this first Living Radiance session of 2026, LaCole “Purlz” Purley challenges us to stop simply wishing for change and start intentionally becoming the people God has called us to be. Through Scripture, personal reflection, prayer, and powerful conversations with the Living Radiance community, this episode explores what it means to renew your mind, strengthen your spirit, create better habits, forgive those who have hurt you, and walk boldly in the freedom Christ has already given you. We dive into Psalm 34:19, Luke 6:27–45, Romans 12:1–2, Matthew 5:16, 1 Corinthians 6:19–20, Galatians 5, and more as we discuss how to persevere through affliction, love and pray for our enemies, resist the desires of the flesh, and let our light shine—even when people misunderstand, gossip about, or wrong us. LaCole also gets personal about confronting anger after discovering negative things were being said about her, choosing prayer over retaliation, and recognizing that the greatest response to darkness is continuing to live in the light. This episode also challenges you to examine all Five Pillars of Health: 🙏 Spiritual — Are you drawing closer to God and allowing His Word to guide your decisions? 💰 Financial — Are you working toward freedom instead of remaining enslaved by unhealthy financial habits? 🧠 Mental/Emotional — Are you renewing your mind instead of allowing your emotions to control your actions? 💪 Physical — Are you honoring your body as a temple of the Holy Spirit? ❤️ Social/Relational — Are the people around you pouring into your cup—or draining it? You’ll also be challenged to write down your goals for 2026, develop an action plan, find accountability partners, practice fasting and discipline, replace temporary “diets” with lasting habits, and live every day with greater urgency and purpose. 2025 is behind you. 2026 is here. Stop procrastinating. Stop allowing fear, pride, resentment, your flesh, or the opinions of others to keep you from becoming who God created you to be. Your life has purpose. Your gifts have purpose. Your time has purpose. Stand firm. Renew your mind. Let your light shine. And make this your year to live your radiance—all for the glory of God. You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love. Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content! Connect with me: Quick Bio: https://lacolepurlzpurley.link My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.app We appreciate any support to this movement! Donate through Cashapp: https://cash.app/$CoCoPurlz Donate through Pay Pal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/lacolepurley Donate through Venmo: venmo.com/u/LaCole-Purley

Stop Living in Your Feelings: Let God Renew Your Mind

What if the greatest battle for your mental and emotional health isn’t happening around you—but within your mind, your habits, and the choices you make every day? In this episode of Living Radiance, LaCole “Purlz” Purley continues the conversation on discipline, focusing specifically on the mental and emotional pillar of health and how strengthening your relationship with God can transform the way you think, respond, and live. Beginning with Proverbs 17:22—“A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit saps a person’s strength”—LaCole challenges listeners to stop treating mental and emotional struggles like permanent limitations. An illness, weakness, or disability does not automatically mean impossibility. Growth requires discipline, intentionality, and a willingness to renew your mind. Through passages including Ephesians 4, Psalm 18, Matthew 6:33, Romans 14, and Titus 2, this episode explores what it means to: Let the Holy Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes Replace bitterness, anger, fear, lust, and destructive habits with godly character Seek God before making decisions instead of only asking Him to fix the consequences afterward Understand the difference between biblical conviction and condemnation Stop allowing comfort, pride, comparison, or emotions to keep you from growing Study God’s Word instead of merely reading it casually Become an example that helps strengthen the next generation Serve God throughout every season of your life Develop greater mental, emotional, and spiritual strength LaCole also shares reflections from a recent keynote speaking experience, her own journey from atheism to a growing relationship with Christ, and the lessons she continues learning about surrendering personal desires in order to follow God’s direction. The message is simple but challenging: you can choose to remain comfortable in old patterns, or you can allow God to transform you into someone new. Conviction is not meant to destroy you. It can reveal where growth is needed. Seek God first. Study His Word. Discipline your mind. Strengthen your spirit. And choose daily to become who God is calling you to be. Welcome to another conversation about living a healthier, more purposeful life through all Five Pillars of Health: Spiritual, Financial, Mental/Emotional, Physical, and Social/Relational. You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love. Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content! Connect with me: Quick Bio: https://lacolepurlzpurley.link My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.app We appreciate any support to this movement! Donate through Cashapp: https://cash.app/$CoCoPurlz Donate through Pay Pal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/lacolepurley Donate through Venmo: venmo.com/u/LaCole-Purley

Discipline Changes Everything: The Missing Key to God's Best for Your Life

Discipline isn't about punishment—it's about becoming who God created you to be. In this episode of Living Radiance, we explore what the Bible really says about discipline and why it's one of the greatest acts of love, wisdom, and spiritual growth. Through Scripture, personal experiences, and practical examples, we discuss how discipline impacts every area of life—from your relationship with God to your physical health, finances, relationships, and purpose. Together we'll unpack: Why discipline leads to freedom instead of restriction The difference between correction and condemnation How obedience to God produces peace in a chaotic world Why mentorship and biblical wisdom accelerate growth Breaking unhealthy habits through the Five Pillars of Health The importance of guarding your mind, your relationships, and your calling If you've been praying for change, this episode will challenge you to stop waiting for different circumstances and start allowing God to transform you in the season you're in. Key Scriptures: Psalm 94:12 Proverbs 1:7, 12:1, 15:5, 19:18 Ephesians 6:12 Galatians 6:7–10 Philippians 4:4–9 True freedom isn't found in doing whatever you feel like—it comes from living according to God's wisdom. Join the conversation and discover how discipline can transform every pillar of your life. ✨ Subscribe to Living Radiance for weekly conversations that help you grow spiritually, mentally, physically, socially, and financially while living out God's purpose for your life. You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love. Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content! Connect with me: Quick Bio: https://lacolepurlzpurley.link My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.app

The Enemy Knows Scripture Too: How to Stand Firm Against Spiritual Attacks

What if the greatest battle you're fighting isn't physical—but spiritual? In this episode of Living Radiance, on 12/30/2025, LaCole explores how Satan tempted Jesus using Scripture itself and what that teaches us about the importance of knowing God's Word for ourselves. Through passages from Luke 4, John 14, 1 Peter 5, and Ephesians 4, this conversation unpacks how fear, pride, anxiety, and distraction can quietly pull us away from God's purpose. The central message is about resisting temptation, recognizing spiritual attacks, humbling yourself before God, overcoming fear and anxiety through Scripture, and cultivating daily spiritual habits that lead to lasting peace. You'll discover: Why the enemy often twists Scripture to create confusion How to recognize spiritual attacks in everyday life The difference between God's peace and the world's temporary comforts Why humility is the foundation for growth, healthy relationships, and answered prayers Practical ways to strengthen your spiritual health and your relationships through daily habits, prayer, and Bible study How fear, pride, and anxiety keep us from experiencing the life God intends Being better partners which leads to better parenting Valuing the roles parents have on the development of their children Book: “The DNA of Relationships” by Dr. Gary Smalley If you’re not good at taking care of yourself then you’re not doing the best you can for your own health nor your best for others If you've been feeling overwhelmed, discouraged, or spiritually drained, this episode is a reminder that God has already equipped you with the armor you need. True peace isn't found in the world's distractions—it's found in walking daily with Christ. Scriptures Covered: Luke 4:1–12 Luke 8:15 John 14:27 1 Peter 5:6–10 Ephesians 4:2 🎙️ Living Radiance is a faith-based podcast dedicated to helping you grow spiritually, mentally/emotionally, physically, financially, and socially/relationally through biblical wisdom and practical conversations that inspire lasting transformation. Always ask yourself: Where am I spiritually? How am I financially? How is my mental health? What are my emotions? How is my physical health? How is my social health? How are my relationships? What are my daily habits? You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love. Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content! Connect with me: Quick Bio: https://lacolepurlzpurley.link My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.app We appreciate any support to this movement! Support through Cashapp: https://cash.app/$CoCoPurlz Support through Pay Pal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/lacolepurley Support through Venmo: venmo.com/u/LaCole-Purley

You Say You Believe in God… But Do You Actually Know Him?

You say you believe in God—but have you actually taken the time to know Him for yourself? 👀 Too many people build their beliefs around what a pastor said, what their family taught them, what they saw in a short clip, or what the world says about God… without ever opening the Bible for themselves. In this episode of Living Radiance, on July 14,2026, we dive into Proverbs 14, the pursuit of wisdom, accountability, repentance, purpose, good works, and what it truly means to LIVE your faith—not just claim it. 📖 Stop letting the world tell you who God is. 🔥 Read His Word for yourself. 🙏🏽 Seek wisdom. 💡 Know what you believe—and why you believe it. The Bible is accessible. The wisdom is there. The question is: Are you willing to read it? Key Takeaways LaCole emphasized that lack of Bible reading leads to moral confusion, susceptibility to false prophets, and spiritual weakness Wealth was reframed beyond money to include health, wisdom, and good works. LaCole discussed a recurring theme from conversations she had during the week — people expressing confusion about faith, false prophets, and morality, yet none of them had personally read the Bible. Personal Bible reading is foundational to a genuine relationship with God. Relying solely on secondhand religious instruction, short media clips, or cultural assumptions about faith is insufficient. The Bible is free and widely accessible; lack of access is not a valid barrier. Black History, Education, and the Responsibility to Read The ability to read is a hard-won privilege that should not be taken for granted. Choosing not to read, especially the Bible, is a failure to honor both historical sacrifice and God's provision. Performative vs. Genuine Faith True godliness is measured by lifestyle, not church attendance or self-proclamation. Believers are called to love all people, pray for enemies, and do good works consistently — not selectively. Action Items Begin or continue a daily practice of reading one chapter of Psalms and one chapter of Proverbs corresponding to the calendar date. Personally read and study the Bible rather than relying solely on secondhand teaching or media clips. Reflect on whether personal faith is genuinely lived out or performative, and make adjustments accordingly. #LivingRadiance #ChristianPodcast #Faith #BibleStudy #Proverbs14 #ChristianTikTok #ChristianContent #KnowGod #BiblicalWisdom #Purpose #FaithOverFear You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love. Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content! Connect with me: Quick Bio: https://lacolepurlzpurley.link My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.app

Forgiveness Isn’t for Them—It’s for You: The Inner Work That Sets You Free

Key Outcomes The session recorded on July 7, 2026 centered on forgiveness, inner work, and holistic self-care across five pillars: spiritual, financial, mental/emotional, physical, and social health. LaCole led scripture-based discussion on releasing grudges, living by the Holy Spirit's fruits, and aligning actions with biblical principles rather than feelings. Participants shared personal reflections on caregiving, physical health recovery, and church community. Decisions Made Forgiveness is self-directed: Releasing grudges benefits the forgiver, not the offender — it breaks cycles of anger, envy, and anxiety. Feelings vs. Facts: Emotions are temporary and cannot change reality; action, legality, and covenant do. Marriage vs. Partnership: Girlfriend/boyfriend relationships do not carry the same privileges or rights as a legally and spiritually covenanted marriage. Inner work is non-negotiable: Self-accountability, not blame or distraction, is the path to genuine growth. Key Themes Covered Mark 11:25 — Forgive before praying for yourself; grudges block receiving God's forgiveness. Matthew 5:44 — Commanded to love and pray for enemies, not just those who treat us well. Psalm 51:9–13 — Stop replaying past mistakes; seek a renewed, clean spirit. Galatians 5:16–26 — Sinful nature vs. Holy Spirit fruits: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Philippians 4:6–7 — Pray about everything, not just desires; God's peace surpasses understanding. Five Pillars of Health — Maintenance Points Spiritual: Daily prayer, scripture reading, treating others as you wish to be treated. Financial: Consistent debt payoff; build savings before lifestyle upgrades. Mental/Emotional: Do inner work to address root causes; avoid using distractions as band-aids over deep wounds. Physical: Bodies are God's temple — neglecting them limits capacity to serve others. Social: Learn communication skills; understand the distinct commitments of marriage vs. dating. Open Questions / Ongoing Challenges How to respond to family members who weaponize past mistakes rather than acknowledging personal growth. Overcoming analysis paralysis — waiting to understand everything before acting prevents learning through experience. Praying for church leaders and younger ministers to be identified and groomed within local congregations. Action Items All participants: Build and maintain a prayer list that includes people who come to mind unprompted; check in on them. All participants: Daily self-assessment against the fruits of the Spirit as a personal health check. You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love. Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content! Connect with me: Quick Bio: https://lacolepurlzpurley.link My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.app

Why Men Cheat: The Truth About Mental Health, Respect & Relationships

Why do men cheat? Is it really just about sex... or is there something deeper? This conversation might challenge what you've always believed. In this episode of Living Radiance, John joins me for an honest discussion about men's mental health, communication, respect, relationships, and the emotional struggles many men never talk about. We also share real-life stories, discuss how society shapes boys into men, and explore what it takes to build healthier relationships. 💬 Do you think cheating is a choice, a symptom of deeper issues, or both? Drop your thoughts in the comments—and don't forget to share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. 🎧 Listen now! #LivingRadiance #MensMentalHealth #Relationships #Communication #Healing #Growth #Podcast #SelfReflection #FaithAndRelationships The conversation began with LaCole sharing an unexpected setback: her housing application was denied just hours before her scheduled move-in. While frustrating, the group believed the rejection may have been protection after uncovering several red flags about the property. They also shared practical apartment-hunting tips, including visiting properties during busy evening hours and never touring alone. The recorded discussion on June 30, 2026 then shifted to Men's Mental Health Awareness Month, where LaCole and special guest John explored the deeper issues behind cheating, broken relationships, and the emotional struggles many men face. Rather than excusing infidelity, they emphasized the importance of understanding its root causes so healthier relationships can be built. Together, they discussed how boys are often conditioned from childhood to view being a "player" as a badge of honor, while peer pressure, social media, and unhealthy cultural messages reinforce destructive relationship habits. They contrasted these influences with biblical principles that encourage love, integrity, and commitment. John shared his perspective on the most common unmet needs that can contribute to infidelity: sex, respect, love, and communication, identifying communication as the most preventable cause of relationship breakdown. The conversation stressed that cheating is always a choice, but unresolved emotional and relational needs should be addressed before they become larger problems. Real-life stories brought the discussion to life, including a young man who transformed his life for a relationship only to be unexpectedly abandoned, and another story about confession, forgiveness, and the difficult road toward rebuilding trust after infidelity. The episode also examined the mental health challenges many men experience. The group discussed how shame, societal expectations, and the pressure to appear strong often prevent men from seeking help. They emphasized the importance of trusted mentors, honest conversations, accountability, and faith-based communities where men can find genuine support and healing. Ultimately, this episode is a candid conversation about relationships, emotional health, accountability, and the importance of creating safe spaces where both men and women can better understand one another. Whether you're single, dating, or married, the discussion offers practical insights into healthier communication, stronger relationships, and personal growth. You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love. Connect with me: Quick Bio: https://lacolepurlzpurley.link My website: lacole-portfolio.netlify.app

Who Are You Beyond Your Titles? | Reclaiming Your Identity as a Woman

Do you really know who you are beyond your titles? Many women slowly lose their identity while pouring into roles like wife, mother, daughter, employee, and caregiver. On this episode of Living Radiance, recorded June 25, 2026, I sit down with Keisha Brooks, host of The State of Her with Keisha, to discuss how women can rediscover themselves and thrive in every area of life. You're more than the roles you fill. If you've ever felt like you've lost yourself while taking care of everyone else, this episode is for you. Join me and Keisha Brooks as we discuss boundaries, healing, purpose, and practical steps to become the woman you were created to be. What's one thing you'll do for yourself this week? Share your answer below. In This Episode Why women often lose themselves through the demands of everyday life. How time poverty, stress, and people-pleasing leave little room for self-care. The importance of setting healthy boundaries and learning to delegate instead of doing everything alone. Why scrolling social media isn't the same as true rest or renewal. How unhealed trauma affects relationships and personal growth. The power of asking yourself daily: "What do I need today?" Action Steps Track your time for one week and compare social media use to intentional self-care. Begin with 15 minutes of daily personal time, then gradually increase it. Communicate your needs clearly with your family and loved ones. Protect your energy by recognizing what drains you and what restores you. Recommended Reads Woman Evolves by Sarah Jakes Roberts A Woman After God's Own Heart by Elizabeth George Time Management for Busy Women by Elizabeth George Keisha's reminder: "Don't spend your whole life being known for what you did for everyone else, and never discover who you were created to be." Connect with Keisha Brooks Instagram: @thestateofherhq The State of Her with Keisha podcast is available on major streaming platforms. Connect with Me Bio: https://lacolepurlzpurley.link Website: https://lacole-portfolio.netlify.app You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith, move with purpose, and lead with love. If you enjoyed this episode, please like, comment, subscribe, and share!

A True Investor

On March 3, 2026, LaCole shares an introduction to improving one's financial education and basics to becoming a true investor. There are set mindsets that separate the poor and the rich. Listen carefully and take notes to learn how to set yourself up for building wealth. Stop looking for quick fixes and become a better steward of what you have. Colossians 3:1-10 NLT Ephesians 6:13-19 NLT 1 Corinthians 10:31-33 NLT Book: Rich Dad’s Cashflow Quadrant: Guide to Financial Freedom by: Robert T. Kiyosaki Poor people often say, “Investing is risky.” Rich people often say, “Being financially uneducated is risky.” Lacking financial education, experience, and guidance makes investing risky Investing is the key to financial freedom. Five things happen to people who do not invest, or who invest poorly:They work hard all their lives. They worry about money all their lives. They depend on others, such as family, a company pension, or the government, to take care of them. The boundaries of their lives are defined by money. They will not know what true freedom is. Most people learn how to work for money. You have financial freedom when you have money working for you “The more money you have working for you, the less you pay in taxes — if you are a true investor” According to Robert Kiyosaki, 401(K) plans are possibly the worst ways to plan for retirement because:TIME magazine has been predicting that millions will not have enough money to retire after a lifetime of turning their money over to strangers A typical 401(K) plan takes 80% of the profits and the investor may get 20% if they are lucky.The investor puts up 100% of the money and takes 100% of the risk so the 401(K) company makes money, even if you as the investor loses money Taxes work against you with a 401(K) plan at a income-tax rate of around 35% If you take the money out early, then you’ll have to pay an additional 10% penalty tax You have no insurance if there is a stock-market crash This retirement plan is for people who are planning to be poor when they retire Smart investors understand taxes before investing I am not saying 401(K) plans are bad, although I would never have one. For me, they are too expensive, too risky, too tax-inefficient, and unfair to the investor I believe there are better ways to invest, but they require financial education “If you are a true investor, it does not matter if the markets are going up or coming down. A true investor does well in any market condition.” “Remember that the U.S. dollar has lost 95% of its value since 1971. It will not take long to lose the rest of its value.” “The more people you are indebted to, the poorer you are…The more people you have indebted to you, the wealthier you are. That’s the game.” Proverbs 24:1-12 NLT Matthew 11:28-30 NLT You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love. Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content! Let's connect! Quick Bio: https://lacolepurlzpurley.link

Honor Parents and Purpose

Key Outcomes On June 23, 2026 LaCole shared two major personal announcements with her Living Radiance group: she is leaving Faith Church to join Union Baptist Church of Chesterfield, and she has secured a new apartment moving in July 1st. The group responded with full support, framing both decisions as acts of obedience to God. The session also included a spiritually rich reflection on Father's Day, family reunion insights, and lessons from a women's conference. Encouragement for Men's Mental Health Awareness Month. Announcements Church transition: LaCole is leaving Faith Church after ~1.5 years of growing dissatisfaction with megachurch structure, nepotism in leadership, and lack of community intimacy; moving to Union Baptist Church of Chesterfield. Living Radiance continues: The connect group will remain accessible through Faith Church's platform — open to non-Faith Church members — so recordings and notes stay available. New apartment secured: 500 sq ft one-bedroom at $665/month (down from $728); gated community with security cameras, free parking, no carpet; move-in July 1st. Women's Conference: Attended a 6-hour Saturday conference at Union Baptist Church of Chesterfield for $25 Decisions Made LaCole will maintain her connect group leader status at Faith Church while personally attending UBCC Group unanimously affirmed the church transition as God-directed; framed Faith Church as a foundation, not a final destination. Key Themes & Reflections Matthew 6:33 ("Seek the kingdom of God above all else") surfaced repeatedly across the weekend — at the women's conference, family reunion, and in a 5-hour conversation with Aunt Greta. Father's Day breakthrough: First year LaCole genuinely honored her late father (Lamont Purley, passed April 2014) without grief or anger; moved by a young man's testimony about forgiving his absent father. Core lesson from Aunt Greta: LaCole has carried a lifelong burden to make others proud since childhood; the reframe — make God proud first, everything else follows. Women's conference takeaway: "Throne before the phone" — prioritize God before scrolling; prayer must be intentional, not habitual. BUSY reframed as "Being Under Satan's Yoke." 1 Peter 4:10 cited: Use God-given gifts to serve others, not self; serving others reduces self-centeredness and opens the door to receiving blessings. Community/village theme: Great-uncle's account of shared breastfeeding and collective child-rearing as a model of true Black community; breakdown of the village linked to isolation, depression, and generational damage. You can always improve yourself and your situation. Walk in faith and move in purpose with love. Be sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share for more content! Let's connect! Quick Bio: https://lacolepurlzpurley.link

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