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Episode 5: Co-Parenting After Abuse: When Leaving Isn’t the End
Leaving an abusive relationship may end the partnership, but when children are involved, it does not always end the contact—or the abuse.
In this episode, Katha Blackwell explores the difficult reality of raising children with an abusive former partner. She discusses how control can continue through custody arrangements, communication, finances, exchanges, scheduling, and even the children themselves. She also explains why traditional co-parenting advice may not be safe or realistic for survivors and how firm boundaries, documented communication, safety planning, and parallel parenting can help reduce conflict.
This is an honest and validating conversation for survivors who have physically left the relationship but are still navigating its emotional and practical aftermath. The goal may not be perfect cooperation. The goal is creating as much safety, stability, and peace as possible for you and your children.
For coaching services, speaking engagements, and additional resources, visit kathablackwell.com.