In this episode of Jollof & Kompa, we talk about what “Head of the House” actually means in a modern marriage — and why we don’t completely see it the same way.

From chores and leadership to gender roles and expectations, this conversation started small… and turned into something much deeper.

We unpack the cultural ideas we grew up with, the roles men and women are expected to play, and how marriage forces you to redefine a lot of those beliefs in real time.

Let us know in the comments: What does “Head of the House” mean in your relationship?