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Jennie's Rants

by Jenny Chaos

Relationships Personal Journals

Season 2

House wars?

My boyfriend and I decided after a year together, we'd go ahead and move together. I thought this was a good idea, I mean we're always at one another place anyway. The first night we fussed about the temperature. He's hot, I'm cold. Next, it was leaving dishes in the sink. Every day it seems like something else. I don't know if it's me, am I just so used to being alone. Ask the groupchat: What adjustments or sacrifices are they making to cohabitate?

Side babies

Dear Jenny Chaos, We've been married 17 years, our youngest is 7 and I recently found out he's fathered a baby girl. Ask the groupchat: "Are they staying and raising side babies?"

Does it matter?

Last week we talked about a married couple where the husband was caught cheating. The wife told him if he cheats again oral sex was off the table. This week the question was raised- "Can a relationship survive without fellatio?"

Unfinished business

My boyfriend left his phone open and I peeped. I know I shouldn't have because you look and you find. I saw videos and pics of his baby mamma, his ex wife and some more. They were all old but I still feel some type of way. Like why would he still have these and be looking at them? I wanna ask the groupchat, are they deleting old attachments from exes or keeping them too?

First date woes

I went on a date, and he had an issue with me ordering appetizers. I wanted to ask the group chat about first date etiquette. What to order, or what not to order? How much do men spend before they start expecting an happy ending?

When to meet?

Last week we discussed navigating breaking up with kids. It led to this week's question- "When do you introduce your kids to the person you're dating?" We are a chat divided on this one, tune in and let me know your thoughts.

What about the kids?

I'm going through something that I need the group chat opinion on. Me and this man were together 7 years. We have two kids a piece who have grown close. But we decided to go our separate ways. How do you handle a split where kids are involved? Like no bad blood, no cheating or anything like that. We just want different things and grew apart.

Are you telling everyone your relationship problems?

What boundaries do we set with parents and friends ESPECIALLY single friends having input in our relationship? Every time we have a disagreement she tells her friends, and sometimes even her mom. I don't do that, and I'm trying to understand why she does it. Can you ask the group chat- Are they telling their friends and parents everything that goes on him their relationship?

Which is worse, the cheating or the lying about it when caught?

Jenny Chaos, I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me. When I confronted him about it, he lied to my face. That made me more angry than hurt. I want to ask the groupchat, which is worse- The cheating, or the lying about it when caught?

Season 1

How are we parenting these adult kids?

I need some help or advice. Please tell me how yall are parenting these adult children? My wife and I are divided because she wants to kick our 21 year old out of the house, and I feel like we should have a little more patience with her. She's not a bad kid, she's missed curfew a few times and she is between jobs. If we kick her out where will she go? My wife is like, she'll figure it out.

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