

How to Get What You Want: $100K of Unhinged Advice.
Hotter+Richer by Haley O'Connell
S1 · E3
Jul 6, 2026
33:20
Episode notes
I've spent close to $100K on coaching, courses, books and trainings over the last four years. This episode is all of it, condensed into the most unhinged advice that took me from burnt out teacher to building my hotter+richer life on the Gold Coast.
Inside this episode:
The miracle question that reveals what you actually want
Why vague dreams are a safety net (and how to stop hiding in yours)
The bucket list exercise, must-do vs nice-to-have
Naming your excuses so they stop running your life
The identity blueprint of the woman who already has it
Why you don't need the how, you need the who
Keywords
Starting over in your 30s
Reinventing yourself in your 30s
Single in your 30s
Life reinvention
Identity transformation
Self-sabotage
Women in their 30s
Confidence for women
Millennial crash out
Quarter life crisis in your 30s