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Hot Mess Help Desk

Hot Mess Help Desk

by Lainie K. & Mya Ice

Self-Improvement Mental Health

Season 2

Episode 18: Tiny Wins, Big Impact with Samantha Buente

Big goals are cute. Tiny steps are powerful. This week, we’re joined by Samantha Buente to talk about why “something is better than nothing” isn’t lowering the bar, it’s how real progress actually happens. We unpack negative self-talk, the freeze response, and the myth that you need motivation (or a perfect plan) to get started. No productivity pressure, just practical ways to quiet your inner critic and build momentum, one small win at a time. Takeaway: Progress doesn’t have to be dramatic to be meaningful. One imperfect step is enough to shift your mood, your mindset, and your momentum. https://www.mysafetyplan.org

Episode 17: Global & Grounded with Dr. Diana Rodriguez Quevedo

Moving to a new country or even a new campus can come with excitement, pressure, and a whole lot of “Why does this feel so hard?” This week, we talk with Dr. Diana Rodriguez Quevedo about culture shock, belonging, and what adjustment really looks like. We bust common myths, name the emotional side of transition, and share ways students can feel more grounded while finding their footing. TAKEAWAY Struggling to adjust doesn’t mean you don’t belong, it means you’re human in a new environment. Culture shock is part of the process, and support makes a difference.

Episode 16: Connectedness? In this Economy? With Dr. Rachel Carpenter

Feeling like everyone else already has their people? This week, we’re talking connection — the real kind. We’re joined by the Dean of Student Affairs to break down what it actually means to feel connected on campus, why loneliness is more common than you think, and how small steps (not personality makeovers) can help you build belonging over time. No pressure, no forced friendships just honest conversation about finding your place. Takeaway: You don’t have to be everywhere or know everyone to belong. Connection grows through small moments — and you’re allowed to find it at your own pace.

Episode 15: Careers? I'm Still Figuring Out Lunch with Adam James

Career panic, but make it honest. This week, we’re joined by a career advocate Adam James to talk about jobs, majors, and the pressure to have it all figured out — without the “5-year plan” energy. We unpack why feeling behind is actually very normal, bust some big career myths, and share realistic ways to move forward when your brain says “I’ll deal with this later.” Takeaway: Not knowing your next step doesn’t mean you’re failing — it means you’re human. Careers aren’t one big decision, they’re a series of small, changeable choices.

Episode 14: Muscles are Cool, but have you Tried Therapy? with Dr. Matt Powless

This week, we talk with Dr. Matt Powless about pressure, performance, and men’s mental health in college. We break down what sports psychology really is, why mental health struggles often get overlooked in high-achieving students and athletes, and how the pressure to always “handle it” can quietly add up. No tough-it-out mentality — just honest conversation about doing well without burning out. Takeaway: Caring for your mental health doesn’t hold you back — it helps you keep going. Strong performance starts with support, not silence.

Episode 13: Triple Threat: First-gen, Non-traditional, & Commuter Students with Dr. Zachary Pilot

College doesn’t come with a handbook especially for first-gen, non-traditional, & commuter students juggling more than just classes. In this episode of Hot Mess Help Desk, we talk with Dr. Zachary Pilot about navigating college without cheat codes and figuring things out in real time. From balancing family responsibilities to decoding campus terminology, we explore why feeling behind doesn’t mean you are and how connection, self-compassion, and actually using your resources can change everything. If you’re freestyling your way through higher ed, this one’s for you. Takeaway: You’re not lost, you’re learning. And asking for help is part of doing it right. https://youtu.be/au7XWPrVr4g?si=fffrHGl6tIh60A3R

Episode 12: Safety First, Hot Mess Second with Kevin Corbin

This week, we chat with Kevin Corbin from Public Safety about what campus safety really means — no scare tactics (maybe), no judgment, just practical ways to feel more secure day-to-day. We bust common myths, share easy habits that make a big difference, and highlight when (and why!) it’s totally okay to call Public Safety for support. Takeaway: Staying safe isn’t about perfection — it’s about small, confident choices that help you move through campus with trust and ease. Download the RAVE guardian app today!

Episode 11: Exercise? I Thought You Said Extra Fries with Jeff Chestnut

This week, the Hot Mess Help Desk brings in a special guest — Jeff Chestnut, our campus Fitness Center Director — to talk about movement as a tool for mental health. We break down gym myths and talk about starting small. Whether you love the gym, fear the gym, or avoid the gym at all costs, this episode gives you practical, shame-free ways to reconnect with your body. Takeaway: Movement isn’t about doing more — it’s about feeling grounded, regulated, and cared for.

Season 2 Trailer: The Mess is Back (with guests)

Hot Mess Help Desk is back for Season 2. College stress, mental health, fitness, safety, careers, and everything in between—we’ve got something for everybody. With a guest every episode, two counselor hosts break down the chaos, bust myths, and normalize the spiral with humor, honesty, and real coping skills. New episodes every other week. Same mess, better tools. Instagram Hotmess.Helpdesk Happy Coping

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Episode 10: Let's Review: Surviving, Thriving, and Everything in Between

In this season finale of Hot Mess Help Desk, your campus counselors look back at the biggest themes of the semester — what worked, what didn’t, and what we’re all still figuring out. They’ll unpack lessons on balance, boundaries, burnout, and why “doing your best” sometimes just means showing up in sweatpants. Whether you crushed it, crawled through it, or landed somewhere in the middle, this episode is your reminder that surviving is thriving, and every messy moment still counts as progress. Takeaway: You made it through. Celebrate the wins, learn from the chaos, and remember — growth doesn’t have to look perfect to be real.

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