Episode notes
youtube episode: https://youtu.be/0doV1ZWLOKM
part two of the 2020 Love, Lust & Loathing Q&A!! thank you for your patience ~ make sure to watch the first video on limerence too!
00:00
00:10 - navigating female friendships when decentering romance
03:23 - maintaining sovereignty while dating
06:54 - my perspective on romantic love and pressures to settle down or be in a relationship
11:30 - how to stop being envious of other people in relationships
12:12 - age gap relationships
13:01 - work crushes and asking men out
14:32 - seeing potential in men
16:15 - detaching from nostalgia for a first love
17:43 - decentering men while being in a relationship
19:06 - men that are financially dependent on women
23:03 - casual hookups
related videos:
how to lock-in so hard your crush dies (metaphorically)
pick me seed: internalised misogyny, patriarchy, decentering men
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what is love
increasing your baseline
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hot girl habits
non negotiable hobby
people pleasing
hook up culture
boundaries, friends with benefits
flirting & crushes
books (affiliate links):
The Road Less Travelled
The Tragedy of Heterosexuality
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