Don’t Scare the Newbies!

Don’t Scare the Newbies!

by kirizal & S

Sexuality Relationships

31 Days of Kink: Beating a Play Slump

W/we sit down to share tips on overcoming a play slump, finding ways to create time and space for all kinds of intimacy when life gets in the way. In July 2025 W/we set a challenge to do something kinky every day for 31 days and almost succeeded - including the most intense and brutal beating kirizal has ever taken and a life changing camping trip, so in this episode W/we recap some highlights from this challenge and what it taught U/us. The blog post referenced in this episode is ‘Sixty-Five’ on kirizal.com Content Note: This episode includes discussion of consensual non-consent play involving heavy impact and simulated sexual assault, discussion of play involving blood and vomit, and no-safeword play

i Can Do This All Day: O/our First Interrogation

Recorded two days after the most brutal, intense, and transformative scene W/we have ever done, kirizal and S abandon O/our regularly scheduled content to relive the three hour interrogation scene that was more than two months in the making. Talking about the practical elements, negotiation, emotional impact, and kirizal’s top tips to endure torture. The blog post referenced in this episode is ‘Not Friends (Ain’t That The Worst Thing You Ever Heard)’ at kirizal.com Content Note: This episode contains mention of heavy physical and emotional sadism including blood, burns, breath play, and psychological torture.

Unhinged Pussy Witchcraft: All About Sex

Not all kink involves sex, and not all sex involves kink, but the crossover between the two is a lot of fun! W/we talk sexual communication, overcoming sexual function challenges, and kirizal demands answers to where S learned Their skills in unhinged pussy witchcraft Content Note: This episode includes discussion of blood play, vomit, and fantasies about sexual assault

Communication is Key: Communication in D/s Relationships

As you might expect from a couple with a kink podcast, talking about kink is one of O/our favourite things to do! But communication in power exchange relationships is about more than that - in this episode W/we talk about consent models, negotiation, risk management, and the importance of regular check ins - with some clips from one of O/our monthly dynamic review sessions to show how it works! Content Note: This episode includes brief discussion of consensual non-consent play involving simulated sexual assault

Sex Perverts Club: Getting Started in Kink

The world of kink sounds intimidating and complicated, so how does anyone get started? kirizal and S talk about O/our starting points, and how (and why) W/we found O/our way into the kink community after exploring alone. Risk, adventure, and connection - let’s talk about everything involved in getting into kink.

Opening the Box: Meet the Hosts

Get to know kirizal and S - O/our earliest kink experiences, kirizal’s chronic over-sharing vs S’s more reserved and private nature, and how on earth that combination led to a podcast about O/our most intimate moments Content Note: This episode includes brief discussion of addiction, and consensual non-consent play involving simulated sexual assault

Episode One Preview Clip

A little snippet of what’s to come!

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