Neurodivergent Capacity Optimism:...
Neurodivergent Capacity Optimism: Why Future You Can't Keep Present You's Promises
Neurodivergent Strategies for Late-Diagnosed Adults: The Div... by Regina McMenomy, PhD.
E84
Sep 18, 2026
17:57
Episode notes

You said yes to fun social plans on Monday. Then Saturday night arrives and the version of you who has to follow through has nothing left in the tank. Welcome to something Dr. Regina McMenomy Ph.D. likes to call capacity optimism: the confident belief that future you will have the resources to keep the promises present you makes.

In this episode, Dr. Regina explores why neurodivergent adults are especially prone to overcommitting. She draws on behavioral economist George Loewenstein's empathy gap, the finding that people in one physical or emotional state struggle to predict how they'll think, feel, or act in another. For late-diagnosed and late-identified neurodivergent folks, that gap gets wider based on several factors.

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Keywords
neurodivergent burnout
interoception
interest-based nervous system
autistic burnout
how to stop overcommitting
empathy gap
hot cold empathy gap
masking cost
ADHD overcommitting and saying yes
late diagnosed neurodivergent capacity